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Bette, 37
United States, California, San Bernardino

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About Me

I am well travelled and I have been to many places as I am an ex air hostess, so I have been lucky enough to travel 5 star to Jamaica, Barbardos, Dom Rep, Mexico, Cuba, America and Canada, however I have been known to 'rough it' also as I have backpacked round Oz and Thailand, making one pair of knickers last 6 days!!! I like to get away for city breaks and have visited Prague, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Paris, and Budapest and I have the opportunity to travel with my current job visiting the US and Germany. You can't beat a nice weekend in the Lakes - I am originally from Cumbria so it is nice to get back up to see everyone. I also try to get to my parents apartment out in Spain as much as possible to get the flip flops out and see the sun. I like to meet up with friends at the weekend for a catch up with a meal or a few drinks in their home cities in either Preston, Manchester or Liverpool. I like to push myself out of my comfort zone now and again to get the heart beating a little faster - I have ski-dived, bungie jumped, scuba-dived, had a ride in a hot air balloon and white water rafted. I am a snowboarder and I have boarded in Canada, Italy, France and Austria, you can't beat a skiing/boarding holiday and would choose one over a beach holiday any year. Next on my adventure 'tick list' is to go on Safari in Africa to track down the big 5. I keep very busy in the week with my job. I love the pressure and the social aspect that comes with my job, my career is very important to me. I live in my own home with my beautiful little boy who makes me laugh and smile every day. He is the one that has made me who I am today. My son does see his dad regularly, which is great for them both, and great for me too as I get 'Rachel' time (and time to date) ;o) Likes - My family and friends, morning coffee, aftershave that when you take a deep sniff it makes you feel all light headed, Betty Boop, the sun, the snow, animals, steak, kissing in the rain, kisses that make your tummy turn (in a good way!), jumping into bed with clean crisp bedsheets, talking, listening and my favourite tipples would be wine and vodka. Dislikes - the phrase 'LOL', text speak, clutter, laziness, spiders, liars, ironing, creased clothes, bad teeth, my own stubborness, whiskey, sushi (it may not be that I dislike it, I just don't really get it - maybe I just need educating on that one), wearing socks in bed and bad manners. I am honest, friendly, hard working, confident, outgoing and independent.An ideal first date would be a drink in a nice pub/bar where you can have a chat and see if you click. If there is no click there is nothing lost, just another experience gained.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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