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Erin, 58
United States, California, Temecula

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Jun 2026 05:40:42

About Me

I am not looking for marriage. Maybe one day live with someone. but no marriageFIRST OFF, I AM NOT ON THIS SITE TO JUST HOOK UP WITH ANYONE FOR SEX. THAT DOESNT COME INTO PLAY UNTIL I KNOW SOMEONE AND THAT COULD BE WEEKS OR MONTHS BEFORE I DECIDE I WILL HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE...I HAVE GONE AS LONG AS 5 YRS WITHOUT ANY SEX, SO, NO, I DONT NEED TO JUST JUMP INTO BED WITH ANYONE, MALE OR FEMALE. IF ALL YOU WANT IS SEX THEN STOP READING MY PROFILE AND GO AWAY!! IF ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS MEET ME AND LIE TO ME THEN PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. I AM SO SICK OF FAKE MEN OUT THERE. DONT TELL ME SOMETHING YOU THINK I WANT TO HEAR. BE HONEST!!!! IF YOU ARE MARRIED, PLEASE GO AWAY. IF YOU CANNOT BE HONEST, GO AWAY. I WILL NOT MEET YOU FOR ANYTHING BUT CHAT. I AM VERY OPEN AND HONEST ON WHAT I WANT AND WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR. IF YOU ARE JUST CURIOUS, GO AWAY. I HAVE NO TIME FOR GAMES. IF YOU CANNOT FOLLOW DIRECTIONS, STILL GO AWAY. I AM A DOMME! AND I LIVE IN A WORLD OF BDSM. IF YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT THAT IS, GOOGLE IT. DO NOT SENT ME MESSAGE SAYING WE HAVE THINGS IN COMMON AND WE WANT THE SAME THING, IF ITS NOT TRUE, GO AWAY.Believe me, being a Mistress/Domme, is a lovely job to have but being a sub can really have many benefits....I can make a flogger feel so good across your back and legs...Luscious, curvy, single seeks friendship and more. Independent and self assured. I am a great woman who wants a man (or more then one) for stimulating conversation.. …er..yeah.....Message me ( or massage me!). I can be someones best friend, because we all deserve friends, and i deserve to be friends with anyone. I wouldn't mind living in a poly relationship prefer mmf. would be nice if guys were bisexual) must be ddf. I am a very Dominant woman. When I get to know someone, they will also in the process learn the real me.I am very honest. I don't play games. I don't tolerate lies. I am not perfect. I have my faults. But given a chance, I can be your best friend. I do not date heavy obese men I do not date men that have so much hair on their body that makes them look like a gorilla. So,if you have lots of hair on your body, wax it.. I value honesty above all. If I am interested I will answer your message.If I do not answer your message then that means...of course it means that I am not interested in you.PLEASE IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I AM TIRED OF MEN THAT WANT PLAY GAMES!!!! I WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. IF ALL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS JUST SEX, ONE NIGHT STANDS AND SUCH, LOOK ELSEWHERE. IF I DO NOT ANSWER YOUR ***, THEN I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.I do not wish to relocate. So, that means if you do not live close to oklahoma city, it would be better if you pass me by. I am attracted to guys on the slender and tall side. I am a very dominant person that matches my dominant personality. At this time,, I have no wants to move anywhere out of okc. There comes a time when you have to stand up and shoutI look the way I look.Think the way I think.Feel the way I feel the way I love.I am the whole complex package,Take me or leave me, accept me, or walk away.Do not try to make me feel like less of a person.Just because I don't fit your idea, of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your moldIf I need to change , I alone will make that decision. When you are strong enough to love yourself 100% good and bad....You will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.Blessed BeTrust is earned, Respect is given, Trust is earned and Loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any one of those is to lose all of them.maybe a motorcycle ride and a picnic. or just sit and have a glass of tea/coffee and chat getting to know each other more.are go for a walk down the river downtown. anything to where we can talk and decide if we are what the other person wants. going out for a meal..even if its taco bell..lol. going to a museum or anything to where we can talk.., i answer my messages if I am interested. If you are wanting a "Christian" woman, then look else where. I am pagan. I have added this statement so those that are wanting that will not waste their time. Thank you. Have a wonderful day

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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