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Lois, 61
United States, North Carolina, Cary

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* This fine used model, is a one owner vehicle and is looking for that one man who has test driven enough to know that a fine vehicle is rare. You keep it, you appreciate how rare, never abuse it, you care for it - and it brings you happiness, pride, fun, value, and is always there for you whenever you want or need. Weathered all the storms and in better condition from the experience. Some minor dents and flaws. Could use a fresh coat of paint. Shines when polished, and OH, what a ride!Direct, honest, upfront....and I can assure you that as long as you have a pulse, and are continuing to read, I am...ME. I devoted my life for my family. As a single parent, I compensated as best I could. I made up for 2 parents. Made every sacrifice, and have absolutely NO REGRETS! Don't live in the past - grew from it...can't change it...so I choose to embrace where I am now. I am happy. Simple things bring such pleasure. I can sleep in a tent with the best of them, and order room service from a 5 star hotel. (I have mastered that!!) I can be happy knowing that you are having fun....and coming home to me. I miss the touch of a hand, someone to tell me "it's all gonna be OK", hearing someone breathe next to me at nite--even snore. Share the "rubbing of the Ben Gay". What is special to me? A note, the smell of the beach, a breeze blowing through the curtains, a kiss, a smile. A partner in crime.......or LIFE.I miss cooking for ***I'd prefer a houseful!! I want to be the reason for someone's smile, or laugh. Sure I like movies, fine art, theatre, vegging, travelling, good food, all seasons, snow, sun, jumping waves, reading, but as much I enjoy those things....it could be so much better to share them with someone, by choice. I had a young wild ride...and I ain't done yet. Now it is time for me to explore the second half of my life....have fun, comfort, surprises, maybe even coast a little.Open communication and compromise makes for endless opportunities together. You may be one of a kind, so am I. *** Test drive this model. Not an antique..yet! But a true classic. Can even be improved by a new owner...to be better, more valued, and enjoyed forever. Are you done trying all the other makes and models? Don't let this get away.Keep it simple. This back to dating as a mature adult - is Hard!A few notes back and forth....then talking to consider possibilities....get to know each other...then, a dateThat's easy...we decide together. Explore. Adventure. Take the risk and be courageous.Where we go - we go. Where we don't go, we don't. I will say this......if we end up here, at my place.....you may never leave again. (No naughty thoughts intended-in other words...it may be just what you were looking for, too)IT IS UNCOMFORTABLE...so, no expectations will yield no let downs, no disappointments....it's just a short piece of your time. It could be worth it. If no apologies were necessary....you may be the ONE.Thanks guys, and I hope you find whatever you are looking for....and more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-56

    I like to look on the bright side of things, and try to have as much fun whenever I can. I'm a die-hard, fervent, #1 Spurs fan, also love to be at N.B.A. games, Texans games, Super Bowls, or any other NFL game as long as its in person! In my spare time I like to do my "stand up comedy" routine. Traveling, movies, beaches, fishing on a boat, sushi and ethnic cusine, working out, and spending time with family and friends. Music is a natural high for me.I'm ***when it comes to going out and staying in. I'm not looking for perfection, but mutual attraction and a good heart is a start.I'm not looking for a "virtual" friend or e-pen pal either. I love animals, and nature and its beauty.I love most dogs, and not really into cats too much.Keep it casual, get to know one another in a nice atmosphere where it's not too noisy would be a good start.The best 1st dates are ones that lead to 2nd dates. I prefer activity type dates or lunch/dinner dates where you can talk and get to know someone. Anything casual, stress free and fun. Not interested: If you're married, only separated, players, smokers, heavy drinkers, hermits, or you don't have a photo posted, please don't bother contacting me! AND, if you've written to me three, to six, to ten times, and you haven't heard back, you might want to pick up on the hint that I'm not interested.No photo=Keep on clickingFYI: I'm not really wild about facial hair, unless you look really gr8, i.e. Jesse Metcalfe, Ben Affleck or Javier BardemAlso, I look like a totally different person with str8 hair, just saying...and, I'm convinced that most males prefer str8 hair:(********* I don't have or want texting, as in for real************PS, I'm "undisclosed" on the body type, as my type aint on here.

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  • Lilly from Cary | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-62

    I'm not a member on here so if you want to "meet me" or "show interest" sent me a message *** can't see who you are" Thanks!Hello, I am in the field of animals so if you DO NOT like animals (DOGS) you do not need to read any more or be in my life, as they are a very big part of me and always will be. I do Dachshund rescue & fostering.I like to be outdoors in the Summer time whether it's in my yard gardening, sitting at the lake, fishing, camping, a nice drive out of town, a little walk and have a picnic. Going to a great movie is always nice, so many great ones out anymore, I love being out under our great universe looking up to stargaze and try learning about the unknown out there beyond our solar system. I like going to listen to a good band or out to just people watch. I love going to flea markets, home shows, garage sales, farmer markets.I like NCIS, Criminal Minds, White Collar, Blue Bloods, The Closer, Law & Orders, The Voice, Undercover Boss, Person of Interest, Survivor, Amazing Race... I like almost all types of music with the exception of Rap & heavy metal type. I'm looking for a friend to meet and have fun with and getting to know. I appreciate a man who likes me for my mind not my body...but who plays with my body when the time is right, and never my mind. I am a very independent person that like to try doing thing my way first, but not too proud to ask for help if needed. I do like a good challenge from time to time and having a guy in my life to challenge me sometimes would be fun. I think we all should be challenged from time to time. I don't need a man in my life to complete me, I want one to share my life with, that someone special we can complete each other. I am a very gentle and soft hearted person and need someone likewise. I do consider myself a LADY and I will require to be treated like a LADY, so if you cannot respect that PLEASE delete me or move on, don't waste my time. I AM NOT ON HERE LOOKING FOR SEX, cam’ing, phone sex or internet sex! I'm too old to be playing the games! A relationship that starts out with sex right off before becoming best friends first and nurture and water it, it will never be anything more that a sexual relationship and that's not what I want. I treat people the way I want to be treated and please do not get me wrong I have my days & moments just like to rest of the world when we have had that stressed out day. ABOUT YOU:This is easy.... Why in the world would anyone put chains on someone, I've paid my dues to make it in this world... Everybody wants someone to be what they want them to be, I'm not happy when I've try to fake it to please the person. I'm someone who knows the REAL meaning of honesty and trust. I'm looking for someone who knows how to treat a LADY like a real LADY and not just out for sex or a toy. I'm not on here looking for anything in the sex department unless you're the right guy in my life. So don't be surprised if you *** I'm a little cold at first. In addition, guys PLEASE learn what Soap, Deodorant and Cologne is and for pete, sakes BRUSH your damn teeth.Pretty casual at first maybe meeting in a mutual place for coffee, tea, pop or dinner. We can talk and get to know more about each other and see if there is any chemistry or not. Whether there is or not we have made a friend if nothing more, who doesn't need a friend to talk with or go hang out for dinner or movie when nothing more to do. If thing go into a second time, a dinner, going to listening to a good band or movie is a good thing unless it's beautiful out then maybe a picnic at one of many beautiful lakes we have here. We could just as well do the outdoor activity(fishing, small little walk or drive Etc.).

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