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Lois, 61
United States, North Carolina, Cary

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* This fine used model, is a one owner vehicle and is looking for that one man who has test driven enough to know that a fine vehicle is rare. You keep it, you appreciate how rare, never abuse it, you care for it - and it brings you happiness, pride, fun, value, and is always there for you whenever you want or need. Weathered all the storms and in better condition from the experience. Some minor dents and flaws. Could use a fresh coat of paint. Shines when polished, and OH, what a ride!Direct, honest, upfront....and I can assure you that as long as you have a pulse, and are continuing to read, I am...ME. I devoted my life for my family. As a single parent, I compensated as best I could. I made up for 2 parents. Made every sacrifice, and have absolutely NO REGRETS! Don't live in the past - grew from it...can't change it...so I choose to embrace where I am now. I am happy. Simple things bring such pleasure. I can sleep in a tent with the best of them, and order room service from a 5 star hotel. (I have mastered that!!) I can be happy knowing that you are having fun....and coming home to me. I miss the touch of a hand, someone to tell me "it's all gonna be OK", hearing someone breathe next to me at nite--even snore. Share the "rubbing of the Ben Gay". What is special to me? A note, the smell of the beach, a breeze blowing through the curtains, a kiss, a smile. A partner in crime.......or LIFE.I miss cooking for ***I'd prefer a houseful!! I want to be the reason for someone's smile, or laugh. Sure I like movies, fine art, theatre, vegging, travelling, good food, all seasons, snow, sun, jumping waves, reading, but as much I enjoy those things....it could be so much better to share them with someone, by choice. I had a young wild ride...and I ain't done yet. Now it is time for me to explore the second half of my life....have fun, comfort, surprises, maybe even coast a little.Open communication and compromise makes for endless opportunities together. You may be one of a kind, so am I. *** Test drive this model. Not an antique..yet! But a true classic. Can even be improved by a new owner...to be better, more valued, and enjoyed forever. Are you done trying all the other makes and models? Don't let this get away.Keep it simple. This back to dating as a mature adult - is Hard!A few notes back and forth....then talking to consider possibilities....get to know each other...then, a dateThat's easy...we decide together. Explore. Adventure. Take the risk and be courageous.Where we go - we go. Where we don't go, we don't. I will say this......if we end up here, at my place.....you may never leave again. (No naughty thoughts intended-in other words...it may be just what you were looking for, too)IT IS UNCOMFORTABLE...so, no expectations will yield no let downs, no disappointments....it's just a short piece of your time. It could be worth it. If no apologies were necessary....you may be the ONE.Thanks guys, and I hope you find whatever you are looking for....and more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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    Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-70

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