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Barbara, 33
United States, California, San Bernardino

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Do men not do dates anymore? It seems all men want to do is invite women to their place to "watch a movie," which we all know is code for sex. I don't need a fancy date or anything...even coffee is nice. Or a walk. Is that too much to ask for? Also, men if you do have a date and are meeting a woman for the first time, change out of your sweats! make a little effort! Dating SUCKS! I wish I could find someone fun and chill to explore the area with. Seems impossible though :( I moved to Gig Harbor in ***, after deciding that life is to short to have a career you don't love. So I quit my job and moved out here to purse my goal of becoming a Physician Assistant. I was accepted to PA school and will be moving to Seattle by the middle of June ***. I already have a Bachelors, Masters, and am an EMT. I love to volunteer and spend time with family and friends. I am compassionate, dedicated, honest, open minded, responsible, outgoing, easy going, and always there for my family and friends. If you are important to me I will do everything I can to help you out. Boating, Jetsking, traveling, and concerts are my favorite things to do. I truly believe that life is a gift and it goes by way to fast. So live it well and make sure the people you care about know how important they are to you. Have you ever seen the movie "The Timer?" A little weird but I wish it was real life. In the movie people have the choice to get a timer imprinted on their body. The timer is a countdown to when they will meet "The One." I wish I had a timer. I am sooooo over the dating scene. I mean, dating is for figuring out what you want and don't want in a partner. Well, at this point in my life, I know what I want. So why can't I just find it already.I believe your most attractive features are your heart and soul...I believe that family is worth more than money or gold...I believe in Karma, what you give is what you get returned...I believe you can't appreciate real life until you've been burned...I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side...I believe... that you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye. (bonus points if you can tell me where this quote is from.)I am looking for a professional, mature, driven, family oriented, honest, faithful, fun loving guy. I want to get married and have a family someday. My biggest goals for my life are to be a wife, a mother, and to make a difference in the world (even if it is just a small one.) I am not looking to marry the first man I meet however. I am very independent and am fine on my own. I do not NEED a man, but it would sure be nice to have one, lol. I am not interested in men who do drugs or get drunk every night of the week. I don't mind going out for drinks once in a while, but I out grew the bar scene a long time ago.Please know that my plan is to attend PA school in the next year. That means I could end up in Seattle or Portland for 12 months. If you are not supportive of that plan we will not work.If you think we would fit well send me a message. I am always up for getting to know new people :)*Dear Men,If you are married, kinda married (whatever the hell that means), in a loveless marriage, separated, have a girlfriend, dating someone, have someone else you are pursuing, are in love with your friend (even if she says nothing will ever come of it), or are immature and run from situations or just disappear *** communicating with people please leave me alone. I AM NOT INTERESTED!! Thanks!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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