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Bertha, 38

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About Me

What I would like in a man: The first thing that comes to mind is that he is funny. Meaning, I don't want someone who is too uptight. I am a goofball and a little clumsy, so if you can't laugh about life, then you are probable going to have issues with me. The second thing that comes to mind are looks. I hate to admit it, but looks do matter to me. I need to find something appealing about you, or else things are not gonna go very far. That is kinda funny comming from me, because I spend like 5 minutes getting ready. I do like to get dressed up on rare occasions,and even rarer occasions I will wear make-up. I am not a very materialistic girl. Yes, I do like having nice things, but I am not going to throw a fit if something of mine gets broke. For example, I eat in my truck and I allow my children to do so as well. I don't see the point of having things that you like to be constantly worried about something happening to it. I guess my motto is: enjoy it! don't obsess over it! I also really like men that are sweet. The sweeter the better! I don't mind if a guy is alittle bit of an ***hole, but the second you are cruel to me or my children it is over. My boys are my world, so I will do what is best for them no matter how strong I might feel for you. Money is not a big issue for me, but I don't want to take care of you. I am sorry, but I've been there, done that! As long as you are able to take care of yourself, or at least trying to,then money is not an issue.I really don't care what we do for the first date. We could play racquet ball or sit on a park bench talking. As long as I don't feel like my safety is at risk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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