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Vonda, 35
United States, North Carolina, Cary

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YOU:a guy who is healthy, active, self-confident, loving, truthful, monogamous, responsible, open (joys, fears, concerns, love, worries, people), happy, and fun to be with.Most importantly, emotionally balanced and complete with himself.Attractive to me is: a defined jaw line, clean cut, well groomed, not hairy, clean/straight teeth, no tats on neck, or hands, and a nice smile. Anywhere between muscular and lean. Taller then me. English is your 1st language, or extremely well with it.My type of guy would look like: Chris Pine, Channing Tatum, Paul Walker and Bradley Cooper. (They're all fit, clean cut, with a nice smile) Do you see the pattern?No smile? Sunglasses? Fat? Unkept? Insecure? Thick ear studs? Smokes nicotine? Broke? I'm NOT interested. Get your sh** together.ME:Down to earth, straight shooter, Responsible, Loving, Caring, Fun, Friendly, Adventurous, Trustworthy, Athletic, Honest, Aware, efficient, Creative, Curious, Courteous, Conscientious, Driven, Organized, Clean, Reliable, Accountable, Persistent, Smart, and Poised. I was raised in Chatsworth, CAI've also lived in PA, NC, SC, VA, TX, and Japan.I love traveling, exploring, and adventure (because I'm curious and like to have fun).I graduated from the Art *** Los Angeles, with a BS in Media and Animation Design.While a college student, I was a personal trainer, for 5.5 years and I prefer to eat healthy like the Paleo Diet, but will splurge when I PMS. :) (no I don't get moody)I enjoy reading (practical) self improvement, psychology, relationship, millionaire, and health books. I just got my ebook published! "STOP! Don't Get Married... YET!" I grew up drawing and playing sports and still enjoy them today.Since i like things to be organized and I've been impatient at times, I've learned how to be independent and self sufficient and hang my own pictures, do my own car research, mount my own tv, Connect the wires on my own stereo system, sew my clothes, cook delicious food, put furniture together, balance my bank accounts, etc.I won't drive unless i know exactly where I'm going.I try to eat every 3 hours so that's why i like things planned out in my day so I'm prepared & take care of my health the way i want to. Last minute decisions usually leads to missed opportunities, chaos, or unhealthy habits.In a Relationship:I'd like the relationship i end up in to be and start as a friendship. Thus, i'm not in a rush or desperate, and I won't have sex until I'm in a relationship with you. The beginning is the foundation for a meaningful marriage, not a ***year relationship.I enjoy deep and/or intellectual conversations about everything in life, as well as joking around. A lot of times I like to be the devils advocate only because I like to view every situation from different perspectives.Our shared values are my 1st priority. Chemistry (attractiveness, good/intelligent conversation), is a second runner up.If you truly are a respectable guy, then time will tell, and what you tell me, vs. what I see, and experience around you, can be different, and I expect to match.I decide to move forward with a guy after I know the person under the 1st impression = openness and genuine.I think every person and situation is unique. If I choose to be in a relationship, it's going to be with our future in mind. My Favorites: Movies: This Means War, Limitless, Sweet Home Alabama, Taken, Shooter, 12 Rounds, Good Will Hunting, Step Brothers, Elf, & ArmegedonShows: Lie to Me, House, Doctors, Dr. OZ., Shark Tank, Tosh.0 & The SoupMusic: Pop, Dance, Alternative, Soft Rock, & Country Perfect Songs: Jason Mraz, I Won't Give Up - *** Mraz, Lucky - *** Straight, I Cross My Heart - *** Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason - you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.A hike, an activity, tea, trivia night, sporting event, bowling, zoo, Dave and Busters, or lunch. Something healthy.Nowhere too loud, movies, or alcoholic drinks. I don't want to be in an altered state of being and I prefer to keep my alcohol consumption to special occasions/birthdays/holiday celebrations around people I trust with good intentions and to maintain my figure and health.Going to a place I can hear you, and we can talk, is perfect.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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