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Mattie, 54

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About Me

I decided to change my profile because most of the guys who send me an *** that i would not really prefer on a relationship basis. Even though am in IT and work in a business environment, I prefer blue-collar guys, no cowboys. Don't mind tattoos or longer hair and not in the business profession like myself unless you are a free spirit. I have a dog, cats and no children; have been married in the past but have been divorced for many years. I am independent, more of an extrovert than an introvert.During the warm days, I'm outside, riding my bike, walking my dog, going to listen to bands in the park or going to the winery or hanging out drinking a few beers or wine. I am an animal lover and volunteer thru a rescue. Would like to meet someone who also likes cats/dogs, is compassionate towards people and animals and doesn't hunt. I like to go places spontaneously. Have not had much luck on this place because most send *** very professional. I deal enough with those types of people at work and I am not really like that on a personal basis.The first time meeting would be determined based upon the conversations we will have had prior to meeting face to face.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 71 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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    Woman. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-69

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