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Mildred, 40
United States, North Carolina, Cary

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About Me

If you take the time to ask me some good questions, you'll soon find out I'm on a different path than most. I'm adventurous but not a dare devil (see pics above), I can take care of myself, but I really enjoy and appreciate having a good man in my life. I love being in love, when the chemistry is there, I fall in deep. If it's not there, I don't waste anyone's time. I live life for those incredible moments of passion that take my breath away. Those don't come around all that often, so I've been single for a long time. I'm looking for a man who's happiest being with just one woman, who's light hearted, funny, is dedicated to family. I don't talk about myself that much unless you ask me specific questions, but I'd love to share more about myself and in time once I feel a level of trust and caring, I will open up more and more. (Hint, here are a few ice breakers you could use to get to know more about me: ask me about the time I lived on a sailboat, or why I crossed that canyon in the pic above wearing flip flops, or how i met Elvis in Jamaica, or about the time the cobra escaped while I was working at the Bronx zoo, or when I helped make a bull into steaks at 15,***feet, or what you'd hear while sleeping under the stars on an island in the Sea of Cortez, or what to order when dining in Paraguay, or why I didn't totally love the foz de *** loved the parrot park in Brazil, or why I'd like to take ayahuasca with a Shaman in the Amazon. )Some of my favorite artists are Morgan Heritage, Young General, and Natty King (I loved that early version of his video no guns to town). I am a diamond in the rough, and am looking for someone brave enough to put in the effort to understand me despite my passionate adventuring nature. I'm not interested in dating anyone who smokes, does drugs, or drinks heavily. I want to be treated with a great deal of care and respect, in return I will treat you that way as well.I could be up for just about anything when I meet the right person. I'd like to get out and do something and just see if we like being around each other to start. I enjoy being outdoors so might enjoy taking a walk in a park, or visiting a public garden, coffee and a visit to museum can be nice. I'd be up for taking a social dancing or cooking class if you are more of the active type rather than a talker at first, or I'd even be up for going out with a group of your friends and trying something new. The quality of the company is more important than the activity. I'm looking to make friends, date, and someday, if things fell into place, I'd be up for a relationship. I'm in no rush.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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