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About Me

Born and raised in NYC. I have a wide variety of interests such as traveling, dancing, shooting pool, movies, long drives, boating, the beach, mining for gemstones, or most anything outdoors in warm weather. I'm business oriented and like to play as hard as I work. Independent, honest to a fault, optimistic by nature. I'm innately assertive, no b/s, pretty straight forward. I'm not a gold digger, but not willing to struggle either. I'd like security and stability, especially at this time in my life. Before all, I want to fall in love with someone who will fall in love with me back. And believe it's possible. I'm spontaneous and love surprises. Not naturally domestic, never had kids, have always been career oriented. I'd rather enjoy being with you than cooking or cleaning. No slob, just not a fanatic either. Being in a kitchen is not exactly my comfort zone. I want a lot in a relationship, but I give a lot too. I'm very picky and yes, Looks DO Matter. Huge animal lover, I don't eat meat, but I do eat seafood. My experiences in life have made me who I am today which I'm grateful for and hope you can appreciate as well. I'm not into one night stands, I'm marriage minded. Will gladly settle for friendship if that's all there is. I'm not desperate or in a hurry. If I don't see or feel it, I won't fake it. Would respect the same. (if there's true chemistry, we should both know it). I just want the right guy for me. I don't jump easily, and with the right person, the journey is everything. I would love a guy who's easy to get along with and believes in God. About you... my age or younger, respectable, good looking and clean cut, a guy who takes good care of himself, honest and a gentleman, patient, yet open minded and easy to get along with. A guy who has a playful side, likes to do things and is somewhat adventurous. Should you win my heart, you'd never doubt just how special you are to me. I've had some ridiculous dates, so let me tell you what I DON'T want... a tightwad, a guy with no manners, someone judgmental or mean spirited, a serial cheater, alcoholic or liar. Life is too short to settle for someone that just won't work. If you are a cheapskate or do not have class or style or a little freakin common sense, PLEASE pass me by. If you haven't ran by now, I'm glad, though I do suspect this will cut down on my *** Thanks for reading my profile.I don't believe a first meet is the same as a first date. I would like to get past the first meet so I could look forward to a first date. With the right person, it doesn't really matter what we do or where we go... I'd probably just be happy to see you again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Judy

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-65

    Looking to find a permanent partner, who has a desire to make a relationship grow, with Christ involved in that process. If you have no faith, well, then I am not interested. There is a time for everything and I know that the right person will come along. I will continue to work on myself until I meet that right one and I hope that he is doing the same. Ask yourself, what do you want in a relationship and then give back what you think the other person would want. Now, I know that is asking a lot, because one of the hardest thing a person can do is give without expecting, however, it is necessary to make a relationship rich in love, laughter, smiles, fun and comfort.I like to drink in moderation and know how to be a fun date. I am financially secure (own my car and house) and would want me partner to have something to call his own. If I can do it after raising 4 kids on my own, it shows I'm fiscally responsible, and taking care of myself for 13 years, than I think a guy can do it making a lot more money than I have.I enjoy anything to do with the water: boating, fishing, swimming, sunning, floating. Water is one of God's greatest inventions. It yields to your body, cools you down on a hot day, washes you clean, refreshes you, and splashes like nothing can. Would love to own a boat, but don't want to go down that road alone. I would like to meet a guy who can think past his own needs and realize that it takes two to make a relationship work, grow, and flourish. Selfishness and self-centeredness should not be a part of any relationship. Drop me a line if you are interested.I think a first date should be short and so I would meet at a coffee shop or a bar/restaurant for a drink. Then if there is still an interest it could go on from there.

  • Brigitte

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    Woman. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 15-35

    I graduated from college with my bachelors and now I'm just working and saving for grad school. I haven't had much time for dating or meeting new people. I'm looking to settle down, so I guess I need to meet some new people. If you have any questions please ask, I'm pretty much an open book.Please don't message me unless your serious. I'm tired of getting my hopes up and my heart broken.I haven't been on a first date in a while, but mini golf is a fun way to get to know someone. Little to no stress/uncomfortable tension and you get to relax by laughing at how horrible both you and your date are (even the self proclaimed mini golf experts!)

  • Carmen

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 20-40

    I enjoy going for rides on my motorcycle, taking drives in my car with the music blastin', hangin' with friends and taking in the simple things in life. I love all types of music! I love to bake and cook and am easy going and love to laugh. I consider myself to be REAL. I work hard to play hard and am a country girl at heart! I just got my Master's in Business Admin. I love the outdoors and stay active everyday with my many hobbies & volunteer things I participate in.I tend to be the "see a need, fill a need" person and do anything for those that I care about. I'm always on the go and you can find me outdoors most of the time. I like biking, disc golfing, bonfires, sporting events and hanging out with friends.***So you can save your time... I won't be a booty call and game players need not apply... Hate the game and the player lol. Looking for my best friend for life!In regards to my header line of being "real"....Here's my soapbox: don't be intimidated by a strong/independent woman, that type of quality is pure asset! In today's dating world, too many are looking for the next best thing... So why is a capable woman a bad thing??? You say you want a smart and resourceful girl, but then second guess that because you are intimidated once they have shown those qualities... who's man enough to stick by what they say?? Cuz that's a turn-on!!! Just food for thought as you find your match... And I'm no feminist ;) lol just a positive realist!HMMM... I am really flexible, but I'd say... concerts are really fun! That or a picnic/walk/motorcycle ride/motocross race/mini-golf/lazer tag etc... Enjoy when a guy takes the reins for the first one.

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