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Gertrude, 33
United States, Kansas, Olathe

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About Me

I just want to find someone who wants to be with me, and will appreciate me for me. I want someone I can have conversations with. It doesn't matter what the conversations are about. I just want to find someone with whom I can be happy. I want to be appreciated and to appreciate someone in return. Someone who will stick around, and won't run away. I'll make it clear. Anything in the upper 30s to 40s is just not going to work. I am looking for someone who's interested in dating me, and having a serious commitment. I'd also prefer to find someone who's actually within the same state as I am. If you're still hung up on your ex, please don't *** string me along. It's cruel, unfair, and wrong. I am tired of it. So, don't even bother if you're not serious. Don't waste both of our time. If that's the case, save us both the trouble. I dislike those puerile games and I refuse to partake in them. Tattoos aren't really my bag. Clean cut is good. Is it too much to ask for someone who's interested in me and only me and not someone else at the same time? I'm not sure about how far someone would be willing to travel, which is why I'm a bit unsure/reluctant/hesitant of ending up finding someone in places like Chandler, Mesa, Tempe, and Tucson, etc. That's a bit far, and I wouldn't ask anyone to travel from there all the time if they didn't want to. It'd be a long trip. That wouldn't be fair. But if it doesn't bother you and you live in those areas, then I don't see a problem. It's your call. Don't send me anything if you're not serious and will change your mind in a week. I'm tired of dealing with it. I don't understand people at times. I want something real. If I'm interested, I will send an *** games. I don't get why people don't write back. I'm a nice girl and all I want is a nice guy. It shouldn't be this hard. If I ***, it means I have an interest in you. And even if you're not interested, a friendly 'hello' ***'t be so hard to write back. It's just common courtesy. It's frustrating to write a friendly ***, and they don't even bother to respond. I didn't think it was a strange concept.Please, non-smokers. No smoking of any kind. And don't lie to me about it. I prefer honesty above all else. I'm allergic to cats and dogs that shed. :-/ Basically anything that sheds. And I know that most people value their pets highly. They tend to come before people. It's quite the dilemma, indeed. And no, it's not a matter of 'Doesn't like pets'. It's a health issue. I can't be around anything that sheds, or I'll get sick. And going to the hospital isn't my idea of a good time. I'm tired of people telling me to go away because they can't talk to me since I'd be allergic to their pet. An *** to be too much, I suppose. Allergy attacks are no fun. I know people love their pets, but I have to put my health first.If I send an ***, is it really so hard to reply to it? Even if you don't feel I'm your type, at least be kind and reply to say hello, thanks for taking the time to write, but I don't think it'd work, or something along those lines. If I take the time to write you, at least be courteous and acknowledge it. *** just seems rude and cruel.Trust, honesty, loyalty, fidelity, and no games is pretty important to me. I don't like being kept in the dark. I doubt anyone would. I want to trust my partner, and be trusted equally in return. Communication is extremely important. Talk about what's going on. Well, what I'd consider a first date and what someone else considers a first date might not be the same. For me, it doesn't necessarily equate to going to a restaurant and having drinks or anything. I'd be happy with just meeting someone, being comfortable, sitting, and talking. I don't ask a lot. I just want to get to know a person. To know that they won't stop talking to me a day after we've met. I just want to sit and talk to a person. That alone is important to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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