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Enid, 42
United States, California, Fairfield

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I am a happy, down to earth, fun, honest, genuinely kind and attractive woman. I love time with my dog, traveling (although haven't done as much as I very much want to :) need a travel companion, HINT!), spending time with my friends, reading, learning an ***, seeing my family and music. I'm revising this a bit now that I've been on here a few weeks. Yes, being attracted to someone is VERY important to me. If you're not attracted...lack the "spark"...then long term is tough. However, there is so much more to it. Perhaps that's why I'm still single...because I seek the ideal and should "lower my standards" my friends say. I can't! Who could? I was in a long term relationship. Then after it ended...I never quite met the man I wanted to be with. Granted, I didn't focus on it. I wasn't ready. I'm ready now...and seriously looking for someone long term...not casual. I mention that because I am receiving a lot of *** men looking to "hang out." I'm beyond those days. Although, I appreciate all the compliments and kinds words. Also, if your profile mentions something derogatory about your ex...or women in general (hate drama, etc etc) I won't reply. I am looking for a respectful, mature, classy, well mannered man. I'm not putting anyone down...I just have been down the road of knowing people who "don't want drama" ...and those are the people who create it and/or having revolving door relationships. I'm looking for a man who is secure in his own skin...someone who is masculine, manly, confident...yet tender. Someone fun,laid back, spontaneous, playful, has a mischievous side yet a good person,good looking but not****....understanding but not wimpy, extroverted but not obnoxious and loud. Responsible, reliable, stable...but not boring, pretentious or rude. Someone who says what they mean...and can speak their mind with tact. I like to be around people who speak their thoughts, opinions....openly, safely...exchange ideas without it becoming a contest, without fear of reaction and walking on egg shells. Someone who inspires me...challenges me and hopefully someone for whom I can do the same. Someone who likes to have fun...go places...whether it's dinner, a movie, to play pool, a weekend trip or to visit another country. I love to watch movies...all kinds of movies so you shouldn't mind staying in either :) Someone who knows who they are...and realizes still that you learn something new about yourself all the time as you grow. I don't want a man who's looking to say all the right things for all the wrong reasons.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Dance
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