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Arlene, 58

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About Me

Hi. Back in the dating game after a long time. Feel too old for nightclubs but too young for that afternoon tea dance but not ready to be a recluse. Want to meet someone who likes what I like. Like doing all the usual things, dinning out, socialising, cinema, theatre, weekends away, holidays abroad, you know all the things that couples do. Go on send me a message. What's the worse that could happen?Why is this so difficult???Have fun and hopefully arrange date number 2

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 73 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 63-83

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