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Heather, 60
United States, California, Thousand Oaks

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About Me

I am a happy, healthy, and an honest, open lady. How will that benefit you? You probably won't have to wonder what I am thinking and if you're having a not so pleasant day I'll do whatever I can to turn it around. Whatever is happening is just life and it seems easier to try to make the best of it, in other words I like to think of myself as adaptable.I'm open to new adventures, really about the only things I won't try are sky diving, bungee jumping or hang gliding...they would probably all be fun but it's about this fear of falling! Hip hop and rap music get on my last nerve fairly quickly, beyond that I'm open. It would be nice to find a relationship that is as comfortable as my favorite pair of shoes. The type of man I'm looking for is one that is confident (not arrogant) respects himself and treats others with equal respect, and who appreciates and values the companionship of a great woman. One that can be as competitive and boastful around others as pleases him but realizes that in an intimate relationship that most often when you win you lose. One who knows how to listen as well as he can talk, One that is comfortable being himself around me. I believe I want what most others want out of life, to find someone they can trust and love, be themself with, laugh with and not be judged and to have as much happiness, harmony and peace as possible.Think this would be by mutual agreement. Would want to do something where we could get to know one another....conversation would be a good start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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