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Nettie, 42
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

Hello Gentlemen. I am going to be me and say it like it is. yes, I have 3 kids, They are pretty self sufficient now,no more babysitters.I can come and go as i please. If you would like more of your own children, regrettably I cannot have more, but I gladly would accept your children. . I am an active person. I workout a couple times a week.Please dont let the heading of BBW scare you. Technically yes I am but by no means am I a lazy slob. I have recently lost 35# and am shooting for 50# more. I have a healthier outlook on life now. I love the outdoors, camping, the beach, boating, or just sitting by the fire, listening to the night sounds, enjoying a drink. I enjoy alot of sports(baseball being my fave). I am definitely motivated by music, the type depends on my mood at that moment. Who doesnt enjoy a good ole festival every now and then. i love holding hands and PDA. its the little things that mean the most to me. I am perfectly content just chilling with my man. I am secure by myself, but would love someone to share my daily life with. I am a sassy one and need a like man beside me. I can be one of the guys, watching the game or getting dirty or be the woman I am and bestow my womanly wiles upon you.I am up for adventure and consider myself pretty open minded to new situations. I put i want a long term relationship well, coz I do...but i know we need to start as friends and build from there. I need a strong , assertive man, yet soft and gentle. One who believes in chivalry.A sense of humor is very sexy. No stick in the mudds... This is just a tease of who I am. If I have sparked your interest please leave me a message. This could be the moment we are waiting for...Thank youI would like to keep it simple. See if the initial chemistry is there. If yes, we start of with... No pressures, let's just relax and have some fun getting to know each other. Somewhere we can have a great conversation, Maybe a baseball game A nice picnic on the lake or beach, a few drinks, a ride in the county or along the lake. I am pretty open to just about anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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