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Janie, 53
United States, California, Fairfield

Offline, last seen Thu, 01 May 2025 05:52:05

About Me

I've been on this dating site for what seems too long:) My mother died April ***after I had been her full-time caregiver for three years...I was involved with a friend from the past during this time and up till November ***...I realize that being on a dating website and hoping to connect with the right individuals is not going to happen while your heart and mind is not clear and honest...not interested in any "casual" sexual encounters and individuals who are indecisive about their lives and relationships...I would love to find a long-term companion and am not 'into' IM'ing, texting, skyping when I first get to know someone...I prefer the "old-fashioned" forms of communication like the phone ( and any inventive ways you can come up with that could put a smile on my face....as I would do with you:***I love The Rippingtons, Bruce Springsteen and most musical artists from the 60's, 70's, 80's and beyond as well....My only child just graduated from high school this past May and is currently attending college in Baltimore, MD.P.S.: I have been contemplating moving sometime in the near future....enjoy hearing from guys who live in other places in this world...tell me the good, the bad and leave out the 'ugly' ( If I want the 'ugly' I can always watch a reality show:) )"When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain." Mark Twain "After you catch a fish, use your eyes AND brain to look for parasites!" SheilaSurprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Cycling
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