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Lillie, 35
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

It's very difficult to know what will appeal to people here, but here goes:I love books, and cats, and happy things. I get randomly excited which often gets me strange looks. I like Disney movies, and musicals, and happy endings. I try to look at things with a childish enthusiasm. When I am forced by the reality of life to face unhappy things, I may falter, but I always get right back up again and keep going. I love to think, and dream, and talk, and listen (I am a good listener, I've been told). I enjoy shopping, and music and movies, and friends. I love a good oxy-moron, but I loathe the saying 'same difference.'I am a little sarcastic. Well...maybe more than a little. Sardonic, too. My favorite artists are Tori Amos, Stevie Nicks, and Madonna.(earlier work)I collect fairies....faeries?...and books. I have over ***. Ok....so, that's me.Here's a bit about what I am looking for in a man:I want a (singular) man. Period. I want someone to share happy moments with. I want a shoulder to cry on and someone who will also depend on my shoulders should he need to lean there. I want a soul mate, a partner, my best friend. Right now, I'd just like to get to know a nice, intelligent, quirky but genuine guy as friends, and then see how things progress. I'd love to hear from you, in any case. This was perhaps the most 'real' profile I've ever completed.I'm flexible. It would be nice to go somewhere where we could talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Woman. 64 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

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