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Currently I am working as a 7th grade Math teacher at a public middle school. I have embraced my inner geek and recently earned a masters degree in math from UIC. However my dream job would be to stay at home and raise a family. I have owned my house since I was 25 and have thoroughly enjoyed remodeling it as well!I am recently back into the "dating" scene and have completely forgotten how scary/ difficult this is! What I have learned is that communication is one of the most important aspects of a successful relationship. In addition to that, it is important to attend to each others' needs. It's the little things that matter soooo much! The $ amount is far less important that the "thoughtful" amount! I have a sweet little girl who rightfully consumes most of my life. However, I am excited to get back out there and find someone to share this amazing life with!I wear socks to bed, dip my pizza in ranch, am addicted to coffee, can cook a mean meal, and am usually up for trying anything once! Lets face it, either the people I work with are dating or they are all married. Not a whole lot to chose from as far as meeting people! Since I don’t have a whole lot of time to go out… I thought I'd just give it a try, why not! I'M LOOKING FOR someone who can be romantic and put forth genuine effort in a relationship. It's easy to go out and buy flowers, anyone can do that, but to pack a picnic lunch with PB&J sandwiches to eat down at the lake takes that little extra effort and shows that you genuinely care! I’m hoping to find someone who agrees that the little things are what matter most. I'm a hopeless romantic, what can I say! I’m looking for someone who…. Is willing to put themselves out there, truly listens when I have something to say, is there for me no matter what, is trustful, is a friend, with a great sense of humor, has things in common with me, is able to communicate how they feel, that remembers all the cute stupid stuff I love, can make me happy when I’m sad, allows me to be my crazy silly self around them, knows I’m not perfect but treats me as if I am, and someone who is willing to put forth as much effort in a relationship as I am.*Note to guys: what happened to chivalry? What is strange to me is that a few times now, guys have contacted me and then immediately thought that I would want to come on over and watch a movie with them at their house... or have felt the need to discuss their sexual desires. Not only is that tasteless and classless but certainly not what I am looking for in a man. Please show some tact your approach. Once you snag us you don't want to "yank the hook out.". )"I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair." ~Vince Vaughn (Wedding Crashers)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Sheshe

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-58

    First time on here. Argggg, a bit nervous. Lived in France and Italy. Fluent in both languages. Looking for an educated person with interesting stories and conversation. Tiger mom to a 7 year old boy. Love life and meeting extraordinary people. I am pretty conservative, so I don't have any tattoos or piercings. I love to dance and cook, not necessarily in that order but often at the same time. Let's meet for a drink or a coffee, not necessarily in that order either. I responded incorrectly to some of those questions (just going too fast) any way to correct to go back and correct them? There are only 3 incorrect answers.

  • Lakeisha

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-65

    To a new year of finding that special someone. To a more satisfying life to share with someone, where we click, that's the hard part. Chemistry either it's there or it isn't, we'll know within a few minutes of meeting each other. There is a lot of great guys out there with big hearts, but if there is no chemistry/physical/sexual connection, what's the point and also no pic no reply. If you have e.d. from drinking too much and need alcohol as soon as you get home from work, please pass me on by, that just isn't a lifestyle I am interested in, life is too short for such nonsense. I'm looking for friendship to start and take things slow, if it's meant to be more it will unfold naturally over time. I believe honesty and communication are the cornerstone to any relationship, without it you end up with emptiness. Wanting someone with a sense of humour and a upbeat lively personality, someone not afraid to have fun, be silly and doesn't take life so seriously, must have somewhat of a dynamic type personality.IT IS IN THE KISS, I am looking for someone who can cup my face in their hands and give me the kiss i'll never forget. I'm seeking an affectionate, emotionally and financially stable man, who is ready & knows changes to their life as a single will be changed for the better.I'm looking for someone mature, emotionally available and realizes at our age they will appreciate finding someone who's into taking care of their body, I do so why shouldn't you, not a game player, true & blue loyal, independent, has her own money and assets, is intelligent, sexy, wants to love and be loved, is affectionate and makes love with enthusiasm and passion is very important. I don't expect more than what i can give. I am not looking to be in someone's life just for the sake of them having someone to be there once in a while... I want to be desired, cherished, loved, appreciated and thought more of than just a person to fill some empty time slot...I'd rather be alone and not go through the pretense and energy thinking it might become more. I want to start something that has a chance for something that is real and solid with thoughts of being together in the future. Life is for the living and it isn't a dress rehearsal; this is our only shot at it. Therefore, I want a witness to the next stage of my life. I'm tired of saying good bye or being said good bye to, either way it hurts. I'm looking for the one that there are no good byes. I'm ready to take a chance again & share my life with someone who is also ready. I'm not wanting a casual relationship nor wanting to become a serial dater. Guys please have done your reflecting and know you are ready for a committed relationship before having someone enter your life under false pretenses. Life is too short for games and it's hard on the heart.Must add that if your separated or recently had a break up, call me when your divorced/over it and past all the pain and can trust again. I wish to move forward and someone still uncertain of making the next step is a ways behind my progress. I've seen how second thoughts work and don't wish to be part of a what if scenario again, thanks. My world has moved forward, and I expect no less than that in a man that could become part of the last one I ever wish to kiss and make love to.I would like to be with someone that wants to spend time travelling a few times a year. Animals rights are closely held to my heart, so you must love animals. Animal rescue and advocacy is a passion of mine. I'm not perfect nor looking for perfect. I want someone who can go the distance with True Staying Power.If you have done your reflecting & dealt with your baggage, it's just common sense there are no games. Looking for someone who is comfortable communicating from their soul. I am looking for respect and treated like a lady. I'm a giving/helpful & compassionate person and simply want the same. Arrogance, self-absorbed & vulgarity aren't a good fit for me neither are games.I need someone that doesn't want to change me, no 'my way or the highway' or players for me, I want someone who is serious about commitment, has honest intentions and is faithful. I live my life by this philosophy 'if you have nothing to hide..you hide nothing' I expect the same.I'm longing to find that 1 great companion that sees my positives. I'm kind, good hearted, loving, understanding, quite witty, do my own reno's and financially secure.Update: I have said, I am looking for long term, as that is my path to follow. The start is dating, and then moving forward with the thoughts of perhaps it becomes you and I forever someday. Be honest in your intentions, for although life is the longest thing we have, my chances to reach out in the middle of the night to touch you beside me, is reducing daily.A dog walk with my 2 dogs and yours if you have any......a nature walk in dry warm weather....or a tea/coffee and a chat to get to know each other and determine if there's enough chemistry for a second date..

  • Cathleen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-57

    Hello, And thanks for taking the time to read my profile. l I'm a pretty down to earth kind of girl. .I enjoy movies,going out for dinner and drinks,spontaneous road trips,traveling,I love the beach in the summer,and the fall(not really a winter person.I enjoy good conversations and meeting someone w/ a great sense of humor.My family and friends are a huge part of my life and they mean the world to me. .I would love to meet someone who shares those same values.Looking for Someone who is confident, compassionate, Someone that loves to laugh and enjoys life.Tired of the bar scene,I like to go out but do also enjoy spending quality time w/ someone even if its staying home w/ a good movie,nice bottle of wine a nice dinner ,and cuddling on the couch. I would like to speak to someone on the phone or in person. Texting is fine but, the art of conversation is even better.I think communication is very important,especially when trying to get to know someone..Love Going to wineries,street festivals, and so much more. I like all kinds of music from Motown,classic rock,Frank Sinatra all types but not into rap or real heavy metal. Just trying to meet someone who's not into drama and game playing, a person who would like to get to know someone w/ a good heart,a great listener and has a lot to offer the right guy. ..Would like to meet someone,take it slow and see where it could lead without any pressure or demands.If you send me an *** "PLEASE" do not just write HI..to me it just means you really are not looking to get to know someone -tell me something about yourself.....LOL...Lets meet and see what happens...If anything a new friend is always a good start.On a first date for me it would be something that we would have the time to really talk and get to know one another..coffee,drinks --getting to know each other is important -... It should be relaxing and stress free...I know It takes afew dates to see where things go but when the first date goes well everything seems to fall into place

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