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United States, California, El Monte

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I am a curvy, sexy,classy, single mother, looking for ROMANCE, PASSION AND LAUGHTER. I am an Italian American single mom. I have two wonderful children, who are my whole life. They are a little older now and I am ready for some me and you time. I need a man who isn't afraid of my curves but sees them as more of me to hang on to and luv. A man who treats a woman like a queen and who wants to be treated like a king himself. I enjoy being part of a couple. Going through life is much more fun when you can experience it with someone. I enjoy the companionship and the physicality of being part of a couple. Sounds silly but that's who I am. There are times I enjoy me time but knowing that somewhere there is someone you have a connection with is a blessing, it makes your heart a little lighter. My experiences in life have also made me realize relationships are give and take. Some days ***, other days ***. Still other days ***. If one person always takes on too much it's a disaster. A truly strong relationship is when you each make the other strive to be better people. Where you both are better for having known each other. I've had two serious relationships in my life and they both ended because of negative circumstances, not on my part. At times I feel I've been beaten down in this area of life. So having faith that there are good honest men who aren't so broken, from their own experiences that they can't enjoy a good woman, is a daunting task for me. I'm trying to keep the faith that a strong, caring, passionate, fun loving man is out there. Are there still hard working, kind, sexy, funny men out there? I'm taking a leap of faith and posting this in good faith. I am a teacher of Special Education. I enjoy my family and friends as well as my job. I am an educated woman with a career that I relish. My students and colleagues are my second family. I am goal oriented but have plenty of time for activities and people that I love. Living in the city gives me the opportunity to do so many things, but they could be more fun as a couple. Maybe you'd like to join me?A first date is a time for great discussion and checking for that spark. There should be laughter and banter that excites the mind and heart. The setting shouldn't be too loud and it definitely should be your choice. A decisive man who can plan a smooth date is a plus. A great date will leave you wanting more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Dance
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    Woman. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-59

    Hi! My name is Lrod. I am divorced catholic hispanic woman with kids from El Monte, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Marissa from El Monte | Woman | 44 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-54

    So I have to try to explain what it is I'm looking for and what types of men make me run for the hills. I think I can manage that. :) First and foremost, there must be RESPECT. I personally believe that mutual respect is an absolute must if you want to build a healthy relationship. I am extremely picky when it comes to dating which is why I choose to be single quite often. It takes a very special person to catch and keep my attention. I don't want a "typical guy" those are easy to come by, believe me I've had them. I want a man who can prove to me that he's different from the rest. Please, if you are "currently separated" (I do not care if your divorce is "final next month") or even currently married I am really NOT interested. I do not share men with other women. NO exceptions! The most important qualities to me are a great sense of humor, intelligence, ambition, faithfulness, decency, dependability, integrity, and sincerity. If you're simply out for a "good time" or to "complete a conquest" please, keep on moving. If you're a bar-fly, into strip clubs (it makes no difference to me if your buddies allegedly "drag" you there), pornography, the club-scene, too close with your ex's, bounce around from woman to woman you can keep moving too. I promise you, we will NOT be compatible. Guaranteed been there, done that, been burned by it all. I really would love the opportunity to find someone who treats me well, who I feel comfortable with and enjoy being around. Chemistry is ESSENTIAL. There has to be mutual attraction. I can do without a lot of things in life, but 'sparks' sure isn't one of them!! I want someone who I'm extremely attracted to (anyone who says that physical attraction is irrelevant is lying). We should bring out the best qualities in each other and I would like someone who can become my best friend. I don't know maybe I am asking for too much? :) But what I do know is that no one should ever settleI absolutely adore my family and close friends. I consider myself extremely blessed to have such wonderful people in my life. I am not into bars although nights out are nice. I enjoy traveling, reading, shopping, blockbuster nights, and exercising. I dislike cheaters & players. If you contact me, please have pictures. This is a dating site why wouldn't you post them? If you do not have pictures posted, please know that the chances of me responding are slim to none. If you have pictures of yourself with an ex, the chances of me responding are zero. :) Lastly please be who you claim to be. Lying about who or what you are is so very sad. If I happen to find my match, I'll be a very happy girl! For the few of you that actually read through all of my ramblings, thanks so much for taking the time to view my profile, and happy searching!! :)For a first date I like going casual. I love going to places that are on or near water. I enjoy sitting outside, having a few drinks and just taking time to get to know each other. So many people have a tendency of not being themselves on a first date because they are too busy trying to impress with what they have and not who they are. One other very important thing that has to happen on that date is lots of laughing. I laugh all the time, not just at life but at myself too. Nothing wrong with that. When I meet a man that can do that for me it just makes them even more attractive.

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  • Lucille from El Monte | Woman | 28 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-38

    Growing older is no exuse for growing upScatterbrained, occasionally philosophical, possibly deranged, definitely odd. Loud, bouncy, persistent, stubborn and a fountain of useless information. I'm also a nerd.Please don't message me if you haven't at least taken a look at my profile. I'm not interested in meeting you for a shag, and I can tell when you think you're being clever and trying to steer a conversation that way. I'm here to meet friends and have conversations, not fulfill your fantasies or sate your urges. I don't want or need to see naked or half naked photos. I don't want to hand out my cellphone, location, or other personal details to strangers after one or two messages, and please put more thought into a message that 'hi how u' or one of those template message things. I hate to be negative like this, but I'm being bombarded with messages and 90% of them fall into the categories above. Seriously, if you don't want an intelligent conversation, then please don't waste your time or mine.I'm the tall, slightly awkward gal sitting in the park, or curled in an armchair, reading a book, or typing on a laptop, wearing a loose t shirt and a pair of trackpants, occasionally chattering to the birds.Things that are awesome -The smell of hay and horsesThe fresh taste in the air after rainFood fresh from the gardenThe smell of booksCool morningsThe stars out in the countryRosesHot chocolatePeppermint teaWineFirelightAnimalsOther culturesThings I love doing -DancingBuilding couch fortsDrawing, art, anything creativeCookingGaming (board games, puzzles, D&D, PC, etc)CosplayingRock climbingExploring the outdoorsTrying new thingsReading a bookClimbing treesThings I'm scared of -ConfrontationChangeHeightsLosing loved onesSticking my feet out over the edge of the bed at nightThe way the world is goingBee stingsSome of my many flaws -StubbornBad at social politicsVery sensitive (this is both a good and bad thing)Often indecisiveSometimes people can't get a word in edgewiseI am not very tolerant of willful ***, callousness, cruelty, or arroganceSometimes arrogant (but I'm working on it)I'm a contradiction. I appreciate a man opening a door for me, but I'll race him to the car door for some reason. I hate fighting but I have a hot temper. I love indian, thai and similar styles of food but I can't cope with the spice. I read shakespeare, and one of my favourite movies is the Emperors New Groove. I love cool mornings, but I hate getting up early.I'm a bleeding heart heathen tree hugging hippie vegan. It's a big part of my life. Please don't message me to try and pick a fight about it, it only makes you look stupid and mean spirited.I will happily sit on the floor to play with the cat, the dog, the rabbit, or any other cute fuzzy animal in sight.I can catch the spider myself, and I'll probably name him Bruce when I do, I can change a tyre myself, but I'll still spend an hour figuring out what to wear. My hair won the battle for supremacy a long time ago, it's currently trying to annex the rest of my head.I'm looking for new friends, people to go dancing with, go swimming with, climb rock walls with, play mini golf, do horsey things with and so on. I like trying new things and I like having company to try them with. I'm almost always up for a yarn. I love to laugh, and I'm especially keen to meet other vegans. Looking to bring more positive people into my life. :)I'm not interested in meeting for a shag or seeing photos of your genitals. Thanks anyway.

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