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Judy, 36
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

I used to have a really long and articulate profile, but I got tired of dudes razzing me about it, and quite frankly I'm a little disenchanted with my online experience at the moment, so I am less inclined to let randoms know so much about me up front.I am: Kind-hearted, adventurous, intelligent, creative, employed, reasonably fit and active, a serious foodie, young-at-heart and fairly young-looking for my age (probably due to the lack of children - it's not the years, it's the mileage hahaha), free-spirited, generally pretty cool, not a pothead, LGBT ally, and not looking for random hook-ups. I like: Cooking, reading, dancing, animals, traveling, festivals, raves, making out, dreaming, David Bowie.You: Hopefully have most of the same traits and like some of the same things as listed above, but also have a penis and man-hands lol (Pro tip: just because i said the word "penis" doesn't mean you should mention yours in your first message).DISCLAIMER: It honestly makes me feel rude to not message back everyone who takes the time to read my profile and message me to express interest, however I've had bad experiences in the past with replying to messages to decline an invitation - either people not taking no for an answer, or else responding with outright hostility and abuse. As such, I apologize if I don't message you back - please don't take it personally, it just means that I don't think we would be a match.Something casual, like going for a pint or two. I get a little nervous meeting new people.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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