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Jannie, 53
United States, California, San Bernardino

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..a dash of vinegar...I would love to write something witty and inventive.. but this will have to do!I'm just me... normal, down to earth, average build, average height and living an average life. (Excited yet????) However, I think my own thoughts, do my own thing, have my own dreams and I'm harmless.I love the sea, people, intelligence, humour, animals, books, life, marmite, black pepper, crisp sandwiches, thunderstorms, learning, LITERACY.... in fact, I like a lot of things. (Don't like liver and gherkins though)Yesterday, I sat outside drinking coffee, with the sun on my face... a very simple pleasure, but life felt so good!I think my life of culinary adventure is over before it begins.. Those curry flavoured peanuts didn't make a good sandwich.. Sigh.. back to crisps, then...I reply to most messages, so don't be shy.... but if you write in text speak, or call me "Hun", "Babe" or "Sexy", like some recycled teenager, you are unlikely to sweep me off my feet. Also, if your best effort to create a first impression is "hi" or "how's you" , its most unlikely I'll waste effort in replying.If you are several years older or younger than me, I think I should point out that, to me, age is not merely a number.. sorry!"Save me from myself"Cried the lopsided elfAs he chased himself round and round"..I've seen where I've been,..need a change of scene..I'll run backwards, it's different I've found" ***For the record, "Dating but nothing serious" does not mean that I want a succession of one night stands or casual partners, I am only looking for one person. It simply means that because of other things going on in my life, at the moment, I can't give the time and commitment required for a serious relationship.*** It seems as though some people assume that others are 'there for the taking'. This is not so.. we all have a choice.. so if I don't think you are for me, please accept that it is my right to decide this, as I am my own person, and no one's property but my own. Having seen what often passes for 'athletic build' on here, I'm considering changing my build to 'skinny'!Why do some people put one thing on their profile, and then tell me that they don't mean it, they are looking for the absolute opposite? Don't say something just because you think it's what I want to hear... and why do people with no picture insist that other people must have one to contact them? Pots, kettles, blackA first date.. as a generic guide, probably fairly short and sweet as an ice breaker, with enough background noise to be able to talk comfortably, but quiet enough to hear each other.. light enough for eye contact and to see a smile... but I'm open to ideas, if you can think of something fun to do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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