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Hi there...Hope you are having a great day. I am a very happy, secure, confident woman. I have put a lot into my life to achieve where I am. I am looking for someone who is also very secure and confident. I am looking for a relationship that is based on inter-dependence and not dependence. One that allows for space, but on the other hand after a long day of work I want to get in my car and feel as if I can't wait to get home to see my best friend and lover! Not just in the beginning, but after years of time together. Everyone always says that a good relationship requires soooo much work and effort! If it's such an effort and a struggle, you may just be with the wrong person! I think that when you find the right person the relationship is like a puzzle and just fits nicely together. Yes, you have to be creative and look for ways to maintain that kind of romance, but if it's the right person and you both have respect, love and admiration for one another, you will want to do things for each other that make the other person feel special. It's important to me that my mate take good care of himself - that he exercises and cares about the way he looks and feels, that he is stable and dependable. I work as a health educator in corporate health and wellness, still do some personal training and still teach at a local YMCA so I am very passionate about staying active and fit! I am also a triathlete and enjoy both the training and the competition. If you are a sedentary person, I can tell you that this will not work out. I am very high energy and although you don't have to be a triathlete I am looking for the same in my partner. I also want someone who loves to laugh and have fun! Life is way too serious and we all need to let go once and while and just enjoy! Love a cozy night on the couch with wine and a movie too....so I am balanced! lol!Btw, I would like to share one more thing. I currently have a house I would like to sell in East Stroudsburg, PA. However, the market has made this difficult to achieve. Hoping this spring there will be an opportunity. So I live in Rockaway during the week and go the PA on weekends. I just want to make sure that is not a problem if you have an interest! Since I am in Rockaway more days of the week, I choose to use that to identify my location.For a first date I think it would depend on how well I got to know the person through e-mails and phone calls prior to the date. It could just be getting together for coffee or going out for a nice dinner. After that I really enjoy dates that include some kind of activity...hiking and dinner or lunch, movie and dinner, biking, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-32

    I am a sarcastic goof ball. Im a chameleon in life. I can dress up girly and be polite or get my hands dirty. They say you can tell a lot by a person by their shoes...I'm not a fan of heels I'm more of a down to earth boot woman. I'm looking for a man who doesn't fear adventure, try's new things, music, can go out on the town or take a dirt road and get lost. . A man who is confident is great but don't be egotistical. Someone who isn't afraid to be goofy and can handle sarcasm lol communicate with me, don't be a liar I don't have time for that or cheap one liners. I worked in the oil field five years three of them actually in the field. So I've heard them all. I am now in the office attempting to find my inner woman lol so if you can't handle a tomboy I suggest ya keep scrolling bud.......if you have questions....shoot *** bchildre17 *** gmail because I think it's dumb to pay to chat...

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    Woman. 62 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-72

    The nice weather is here and I'm looking for someone to spend time outside with! I'm upbeat and youthful, with an enjoyment of learning and trying new things. Life is short and there's much to discover - and it's especially fun with someone you care about so I'm looking for a new best friend to share in the discoveries. Who knows what the chemistry is like until we meet?I am happiest being outdoors gardening, hiking/walking, camping, whatever. I like to go to outdoor concerts, cook dinner with friends, play games (scrabble, chess, pictionary, etc) and cards, watch movies together. I enjoy conversation and discussions with people even if we have different views. My politics are somewhat liberal and I'm involved in various community activities. Although I'm not religious, I'm a spiritual person. Traveling is one of my passions - I've been on 5 continents, but there's still so much more to see. My goal is to get to all the National Parks. The arts and music are important in my life - my taste in both is broad but music favorites tend to be some oldies like Van Morrison, John Denver, Springsteen, Fleetwood Mac, Lovin' Spoonful - also like Celtic, folk, blues, jazz (Used to play the guitar and sing a bit myself). The man I would like to spend time with is open, honest and believes kindness is important. He'd enjoy conversations and be interested in many things. I'm an optimist, and I feel what we give out comes back to us. I feel we are responsible for our lives and need to make our community and the world a better place. As a teacher, I try to do that with my students every day.So don't just look at my photo...let's chat - maybe we can have an adventure together.An opportunity to chat and get to know each other is what's important - so coffee/tea in a quiet place would be good. In the nice weather a walk would be great.

  • Ashlee

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    Woman. 75 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 65-85

    Favor me or I dont get to see your site .We are ready for dating, or maybe considering a long term relationship we agree.Great relationships are worth the effort,or the distance.Happy,fun,laughing and cuddles are a must,as kissing/touching,in public[discreetly} or our time alone.Energetic,not a couch potato,altho there is time to sit and enjoy being together,wants to explore things to create memories.Respect for our country,family,and the other person says a lot about us. .I have moved to Largo Florida Depending on the season or reason to be anywhere,ready for adventure.I enjoy walking {4 miles a sayknv},dancing, bike riding,{peddle or motorized} garage sales,museums,short or long trips,being near in/on water, spur of the moment anything. Golfed in past would again , dishes can wait if we do spur of the moment fun.Being kind,sharing,speaking softly to each other.Enjoying fast food for when we are in a hurry or with the grand kids,to a classy resturant,home cooking by you or me {us?}with unpressured goals of healthy eating.I do not take medications but would if needed ,not a drug user,never smoked,drink rarely {maybe a wedding toast,always limited to 2. I don't mind if you do with in reason, ..At this stage of life being with someone is more about each other and "our" wants than about the rest of the world and demands that life can make.I do belive in obligations,financial responsibility,work ethics,giving back.I am zestful and guessed years younger,loving people and life.A promise, not heavy or ugly,it would be fruitless to lie,a costly trust issue...Please be single. .widowed or divorced ....It would depend on the person,the season spring,summer,winter,fall,and location,in the stage of knowing each other,a mutual decision,or simply coffee/cola,etc...I dont believe in wasting time if its not working.

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