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Flossie, 45
United States, California, Richmond

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About Me

I'm a spontaneous, adventurous woman who is always up for some fun, whether we're getting lost in a corn maze, bowling in 70's clothes, a three legged race in the mall, hang gliding or squeezed in with locals (carrying entirely too large a basket on their heads) on a Central American chicken bus. I love to travel and have been fortunate to go to Africa twice (Malawi, Kenya, Tanzania, Zimbabwe, Zambia), Ireland, Italy, England, France, Belgium, Amsterdam, Greece, three months in Spain a month in Guatemala, Honduras, six months in Australia, Peru, Hawaii, Mexico, Dominican Republic, Aruba and St. Martin. And Vegas weekends are fun! You can learn so much by traveling and experiencing other cultures. It's extremely humbling.I love to ...... do anything with my son. He rocks!I am a passionate woman, about everything, life and the people I surround myself with. I am a sensual person and have decided I like being romanced. Who knew? I don't mind getting down and dirty with a home project, and am just as comfortable camping as I am dressed up for a night on the town or cuddling on the couch watching a movie. I have a crazy sense of humor and believe kindness & happiness is key. I can be quite sarcastic and am non-confrontational and not a fan of drama. I'm a glass full (overflowing) person. I've been known to speak Spanish fluently, but only in my sleep. I can cuddle with a snake, hold a spider or catch a mouse but get a moth within 20 feet of me and I slip into a coma. I was a roller derby girl and absolutely loved it! My knee just wasn't as aggressive as I was. It's the perfect excuse to slam into other women, press on a temporary tattoo and wear insanely small and crazy clothes which usually include fishnets. And, was the best workout ever! I believe in paying it forward and that we all can make a difference. My son and I went to Kenya a few summers ago and stayed & worked in an orphanage, it was the best experience for both of us. I went hoping to change as many lives as possible, but OUR lives were the ones changed.I've got a Bucket List that is continually growing. I've done about 25 of the 80 items on it, so far. Just crossed off be on Wheel of Fortune. Another one on the list is to be on the Amazing Race (my favorite show). Will you be my partner? I know what I want in a man and I'm not willing to settle. It doesn't mean I'm picky and unrealistic it means I've learned from my mistakes and want to find someone I can happily grow old with. The man I'm looking for should: have a great sense of humor, be confident but not arrogant, happy, extremely kind, understanding, compassionate, successful in whatever he does, driven (but can relax), can laugh at himself and can make me laugh, be spontaneous but also plans fun stuff for us, classy but can also be goofy & treats me like a lady, even though I can handle it on my own. I want a friend, someone I want to call the second I have good news or who's shoulder I can cry on if it isn't so good. I want a man who loves me enough to make a skin suit out of me, but yet doesn't. I'd love a fellow travel lover. Someone who wants to go ziplining through the Costa Rican jungle, fetch me fruity drinks with umbrellas in them on a Caribbean beach (ok, you don't have to fetch them for me, but would you if I wanted?), will work beside me helping to build a hut made of dung in Africa, and will let me wrap my arms and legs around them on their Vespa rental on the streets of Florence. And, I'm not shallow about looks but I have to say a smile goes a long way (especially if you have all your teeth). I'm sorry to say I'm divorced, although I'm a much stronger woman for it. Divorce is hard enough on adults, I wanted to make it the least painful for my son. He was and always will be my number one priority. He is 14 and one of the coolest people I know. I'm not looking for a dad for him, he has a great one already. I love family and really wanted more kids but have adjusted that idea as I've aged. I am appreciating my freedom a bit more as my son gets older. I am completely open to meeting someone who has kids. I'm still open to adopting if that's what me and my new man decide. I do want a man who values being a father and husband as his most important, valuable roles. I'm looking for the yin to my yang, the jelly to my peanut butter, the Tom to my Jerry and more importantly the Romeo to his Juliet (minus the double suicide ending). I am up for fun and adventure. Life is short, I'm living it!! Care to join me?Oh and bonus points if you are an oldest child or only. Those are apparently the best matches for me. :)I'm good with a variety of things. A drink, dinner (fast food if you appear to be a freak from the get-go), toilet papering your enemies house or maybe go on a scavenger hunt. Ice skating in Central Park, picking up garbage at the beach, slinging food on the conveyor belt at the Oregon Food Bank, I'm open to suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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