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Tara, 37
United States, California, Simi Valley

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The truth is I am a pretty simple girl I just use a lot of words to explain it......I am down to earth, free spirited, think outside the box kinda gal. I can have a good time just about anywhere. I am an eternal optimist. My approach is always that the glass is half full but it comes down to what the glass is filled with, that determines whether or not I drink it. I am adventurous and spontaneous. I love to laugh and be silly. I tend to be very sarcastic. Most people take life way to seriously. I am easy to be around, I have a way of making everyone feel comfortable. I could careless about what is going on in the tabloid headlines. I hate drama, games and gossip. Of course life has thrown me a few curve balls but you will never learn to hit them unless you step up to bat. Resiliency is very important to me. How do you handle what life tosses your way? I am a true lover of nature! Not just being outside but really absorbing the beauty that the natural world holds. I’m outside every chance I get. I love being off the beaten path. I love being in or by the water! If kids are not your thing you can just keep on moving. I have a teenage daughter that is the love of my life and that will never change. Now I'm not looking for you to a baby daddy! Most likely you will not be even meeting her till much later down the road anyways. I'm not bringing men in and out of her life to break her heart. Mine can handle it, hers can't. If you want fake and superficial you won't find it here. There are plenty of those out there you won't have to look too far. If you’re looking for someone to parade around in the latest fashions sporting shoes that leave feet covered in blisters, just keep on looking my friend. Now I'm not saying that I don't take care of myself or enjoy my own sort of fashion. But I refuse to compromise who I am and what I believe in to fit into other people’s molds. My favorite word is authentic. It is how I try to live my life each day. Music is a major motivating force in my life! GOOD MUSIC! I think that Orlando’s commercial radio stations are a clear depiction of all that’s wrong with our society today. The talentless drones people pollute their minds with just blows me away! The higher ups telling them what they should like and they follow like mindless rats. Crazy! Come on give me some soul! Now I do have an appreciation for all genres of music but it MUST have some talent involved. I would be lost without Sirius Radio and my I-pod. That’s way more than enough about me now on to what I want from you……………I’m looking for my best friend. I believe in an equal partnership. I will never ask more of you then what I am willing to give myself. I want to be with someone that inspires me to become a better person, someone that lights me up and someone whom I can do the same for. I have a lot of fire inside of me and if I found the right partner we could be an unstoppable team. I am looking for someone to join me on this beautiful path that I walk down each day. Someone that is open to new experiences that can find excitement in the all mysteries that this universe has to offer, someone that knows and believes in who they are. You have to be able to find beauty in the simplest things in life.Wow if you have made it to the end of this book you have earned a gold star! Please feel free to say hello. But if you do send me a message please don’t just cut and paste the same message you have sent to everyone else. I like creative thinkers. I'm not saying you must write a novel!! But a Hi! Your hot... Is just not gonna cut it..:)Maybe a picnic on the river or a stroll in the park. Really I'd leave that up to you. You can get the gist of what I am into via my profile. I'd be interested in what you had in mind. Creativity scores major bonus points. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Cycling
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    Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-70

    When I say Christian, I mean that your a man that loves the Lord, puts him first in his life and goes to church on a regular basis. I'm looking for my bestfriend...someone to love and be loved by..ME: A friend recently described me as....funny,smart,beautiful and passionate...So, I'll just leave it at that and you can discover for yourself what you think of me....YOU: Are TALL(min.5'***'7),handsom,sense of humor,reasonably good communicator,a loving good man that's emotionally available....I love the coast...walking the beach in the morning before anyone else is out there...well,except for you;)... That is if your not still sleeping:)..And If you tick me off..I'll tie you up and beat you in your sleep....Kidding..lol..Just checking to see if your actually reading my profile ;) And I'm open to trying the things you like too. I work with youth at church...If your this Tall man I would love to meet you;).Also, I don't smoke and I'm sorry but, I don't want to be with someone who does:( Also, in the interest of full disclosure I have gained 25 pds since I had knee surgery this past year and a half , was not able to work out as before but, it's a lot better, I still have to be careful some but, am hoping to get back to be able to do aerobics again. I like this quote..."Don't bother reserving a place in your heart for someone who isn't willing to make an effort to stay" and "Don't make someone a priority... that makes you an option."Initially: I would like to talk on here a bit so we can get a feel to see if there's a spark and mutual interest...then text/talk on the phone a little and see where that leads us!!..P.S....I like this quote,..."You have to swim out of your comfort zone to catch the wave of your life!"....So...this means if your interested in me please send me a note...Because,I don't assume that just because you've looked at my profile that your interested in me..Thanks! P.S.One of the gentlemen on here gave me this idea:If you're shy or don't want to waste your time w/note... in case your not sure if I'll be interested ... then *** you'd like... put me on your favorite's list and if I'm interested I'll put you on mine then we'll both know for sure there's a mutual interest.:) If not...God bless you on your search!!WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of it's associated sites for studies, projects,advertisingl,sales,or any other reason-you DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do...it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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  • Estela from Simi Valley | Woman | 45 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-55

    .......eventually, someone will tell it for you. And with that said........the truth is I am not 45 nor am I a Gemini. Not sure how that happened, but didn't notice it until I had passed the time limit to change it. I am 54 and a Virgo. I apologize for wasting your time if the age is important to you. Be on your merry way and happy fishing!Now that I got that out of the way - Hello and thank you for viewing my profile. I am not putting too much effort in looking at the moment. However, I am hopeful that a Christian man (one who attends and is involved in his church) comes along. I am definitely not interested in jumping into a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. Fairly comfortable with my own company, so don't need to be in a relationship just to avoid being alone. After raising three children and partially raising my granddaughter I rather enjoy the alone time :)I don't smoke or do drugs and won't date someone who does. I eat healthy most of the time and drink in moderation when I decide to drink. I like most outdoor activities. My daughter, granddaughter and I have dedicated the summer of ***to beach adventures. We are visiting the best beaches in Florida. We started with Fort Desoto and next on the list is Siesta Key. When it cools off and is too cold for the beach then we are going to hit the best parks.I would like to develop a friendship first, so if you are a Christian and your behaviors reflect it then send me a message and we can talk. Thank you for reading my profile. I hope you have a great day (or evening)!

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  • Karen from Simi Valley | Woman | 43 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-53

    I am no longer looking.I am a larger woman (not circus size or motorized wheelchair big), 5'4" long, dark brown hair, with brown eyes. Some people say that I look part Asian. I am looking for a black man who is into staying in most nights, watching TV, movies, cooking together or listening to music while we cook. It's also a lot of fun to take a walk, or go to an outside trail or just sitting and talking on a swing set. A sense of humor is most necessary, as I have a twisted sense of humor. I am so tired of head games, men's inability to commit to a relationship. Also, being honest, but in a tactful way, is very important to supporting someone you care about WHILE helping them and their ego (men or women).I would first get to know the person a little over the telephone, and then, we can come to a decision.

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