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Vanessa, 54
United States, California, Daly City

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About Me

I am a middle aged woman looking for friends to do things with. I tend to devote too much of my time to work lately and I'm looking to break that pattern, especially in time for summer. I like quiet evenings at home, but I also like to go out once in awhile and do something fun. My idea of fun? Let's see, movies, plays, music, festivals, antiques, garage sales, travel, camping, fishing...etc. I love animals and I have 2 cats and 2 dogs.I would love to find a serious relationship and settle down, but I am not going to do drama and I WILL NOT tolerate games! I will be upfront and honest with you, and appreciate the same. I have just come through breast cancer, we caught it early, and have been cancer free 6 months now...hope to stay that way! Anyone can feel free to *** have not upgraded and don't know that I will. I have not had the best of luck with dating sites. Too many dishonest, game players out there. However, if you're upfront and like to have fun, or just relax at home, I'd love to chat!Just a heads up, I don't go out with butch women...soft butch is ok if you're cute. I am educated and a little picky when it comes to my dates...I want a woman that can spell and knows how to put a sentence together. That may seem a little mean spirited, but might as well be up front about it.Get together, cook dinner and talk! Maybe watch a movie and curl up on the couch with our dogs!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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