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Gayle, 42

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Hi, I'm looking for the one !Sure it needs to start somewhere, but you see I want to do this wisely. I'm not looking for perfect, but perfect for me. Forever after ! Et ils vécurent heureux jusqu'a la fin des temps ! Non je crois pas au comptes de fée lol mais sérieusement Disney a joué avec nos têtes depuis longtemps hahaha !I could only say a few extra pounds cause I'm really not tall lolBut I would like to say a few extra pounds donc je recherche la personne qui aime les marches et les activitées en nature. C'est ma façon de faire de l'exersise. I'm looking for:Honesty: Even the little stuff matter. Secrets or dishonesty is poisonous.COMMUNICATION: Being open as much as you can. Both should know exactly what the other expects. Issues should not become fights, if you make sure to talk about absolutely everything. I have an issue with being *** should be balanced. Sure you could make me happy, but I also want to make you happy.Trust: It's my job to show you I'm trustworthy. It's your job to show me how much meaning I have. How I can count on you. How you are my person, my rock.Special days: Birthday's, anniversaries, it's important. It's not all about the valuable gifts. In my mind the best gifts are from the heart.Together: Doing something for the other is nice. Doing something together is always the best choice. Together as much as you can. Avoid confusion of your individual goals even if they are important. Time is important. If you don't have time to spend with me because your busy, that's telling me I'm not important enough. Patience: Keep calm, take a huge breath. I'm not perfect, neither are you. Unloading can be a release, ask for patience. Be patient. Talk. Did I say talk ? HahahaHabits: We all have them. You should like me just the way I am and I will like you just the way you are. I have to say I can't handle feet dragging. I think that's my mother talking. LolInsignificant: You should be my partner. I don't want a parent or teacher. We should NOT want to change everything about one another.Intimacy: Physical. Emotional. Lovers. Shared activities. This should happen when we get to know each other, not during the first chat. Friends: Be our better self in health and happiness. Partner in crime. Conflict: The fight will happen. I won't run from it and I really hope you won't either. I'm into resolving matters. Communication is important. Words and actions.Crisis: I want to be there for you. I want you to be there for me. For better or worse.Financial: I'm not made of money either, but you should be able to live by yourself. You should be able to go out to diner from time to time.A little more about me:The most important people in my life: My 15 yrs old son and 13 yrs old daughter. Yes they are in teenage years, but they are great kids and I'm very proud of them. We also have two more members in our family, a dog and a cat. They are not pets, but members of the family.Work: I work to live. I don't live to work.Like: I like the little things in life. A walk in the forest with family. Hot chocolate and skating on the canal. A lunch by the water somewhere with a good book. I love being outside. Love hiking.French: Je parle francais a la maison. Meme le chien et le chat parlent francais. Le chat est un male donc je ne suis pas certaine lol lolSi tu parles francais, c'est encore mieux. Si tu aimes rire, c'est ***fois mieux :)Thanks for taking the time to read this. Good luck in your search.You should plan. You should also send me a message first. I love breakfast.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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