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Melva, 62
United States, Kansas, Olathe

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Energetic and happy, I am not nosey, and I am I love constructed dance, movies, music, and art.Would live to meet an out going happy, go lucky friend, do not do drama. I am practicing Catholic, so need not contact me if you are not Catholic and practicing. I have outside dogs, in and out cats, and 2 horses. I am inclined to know a person with same life style. .Oh and I love constructed dancingwest coast swing, Salsa...I am not interested in anything but, swing. . Or salsa, and someone that wishes to enjoy progressingI am sort of afraid of finding a man to live with. I don't want to hurt anyone, or be hurt. I am looking for a Swing Dance Partner, and someone that wants to do something other than hang on and dictate. I am articulate, and I am very fizzie.. I d not care what you do, I grew up in that house hold.. I want to be free in the last years of my life.. I and you deserve happiness...don't find itMake it.I am a pioneer, of spirit.. not a wisp. I ride horse, dance, write short stories, cook, hunt for bargains, love to drink Cab, love social gatherings, wale the blues, and drive a mean hammer.train horses, and don't train people.. their demeanor offends me, but just then u begin to become comicalI am very hard to pin down... and do not like to hang while in my home, I like my privacy.. but, when I want I travel for sometimes long periods of time to places of interest.I am a free spirit.. and a blood line gypsy.I am Siouan, and I am full of music... and rhyme.I do not like so much to be around gaudgers.. or whites with limited potential to think, often times I slide over them, as go away...then there is no wonder to why any of us are alone. ...for life? I dance in a place called North Myrtle Beach, SC on the right times in April, and September.. and my friends are the 3 D's of dance..lolwe born to dance and be happy... and that is what I am.. happyDo yall know what a friend is? It has nothing to do with the small brain hiding behind your zipper, dude.Oh, I am a practicing Catholic, and I am Spiritual... please do not try to convert me.. or discuss your thoughts.. about the Catholic Church.. I have many answers, as this is my main study these days. so if you hate us.. you need to wash the mud out of your eyes.oh be happy, pray your Rosary!And forget your works ambitions and your suicidal social status. . Each and everyone of us are a dime a dozen..stuborn, and dust in the wind. .. all we are is dust in the wind. .. I was an ego maniac, gone, humble knowing full well my shameful self. ..I don't steal, and I don't lie.. did you say that vocalization is a form of intimacy?yes, I didI really have been on fish for a long time and I see the same peoplemen you guys need to relaxdating is not going to prisonand if you are only looking for a one night stand.. you should be ashamed...?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Art Activities Cycling Dance Museums Drawing / Painting
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