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Lillian, 32
United States, Texas, Plano

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About Me

Right now I'm looking for light; I'm seeking connections full of rampant chemistry and pheromones. I am not opposed to something else developing (I actually do want a primary partner) but let's see where things go, shall we? ;)I love music and am in an all-female, all-queer band. My soul and passion are in this work. During the day I teach, which I find fulfilling and it also allows me to support myself while playing music. Important.I also love the Japanese fashion lolita (NOT the same as the Nabokov version, google it if you don't know) and dress with at least echoes of it as much as possible. I love all things cute and girly and could tell you the difference between good and bad lace with my eyes closed. I take pride in being a strong, independent, yet cute and sweet and kind queer femme. I lived in Korea for two years and I love Korean food and culture. I still have a lot of friends in Korea whom I miss very much. I have traveled quite a bit but my restless desire to experience new places and things is insatiable.Grammar (or at least an attempt at it) and intelligence are important to me. I'm very affectionate and devoted to everyone I like, including friends, family members, and most of all to girlfriends. I'm generally into women who are more butch/tomboyish/androgynous than not, but don't let that stop you if you aren't--attraction is unpredictable. I like people who have a sense of humor and are somewhat easy-going but have their own sense of self and own interests, and not ones that are fabricated to impress others. I'm often the person people call when they want to know what is happening that weekend/month/event as I like to be busy and involved in many things. Quite honestly, as long as a person genuinely likes and respects me, is affectionate and at least somewhat conscientious about our relationship I would be happy, even if our interests or tastes are very different.I find this question rather ridiculous because the perfect first date would depend on the person. Whatever the place or the setting, we would never run out of things to say and there would be an undercurrent of energy in the air as our bodies talked to each other.I would love to bring someone to a show or out dancing but I'd also be just as happy going out for bubble tea and wandering around some shops. I ride my bike everywhere possible so someone who wanted to do that with me would be fantastic. I'm so in love with my bike...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Kindle from Plano | Woman | 27 years old | Virgo
    Kindle

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-27

    Hi! My name is Kindle. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Plano, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Ladonna from Plano | Woman | 38 years old | Aries
    Ladonna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-48

    First, do not ask me for pictures unless you plan on paying me first! I don't do free contract work and anything else is just simply below me. I have met a few men from here who were insincere and somehow define their manhood in being a fraud or bullsh*t artist. Really? Life is too short and I am entirely too genuine to enjoy the bullsh*t or yo-yo games of a man who is "I like you" then cold, then hot, then cold. If I wanted to deal with an emotional rollercoaster, I would date women!!!! REQUIRED: GENUINE, HONEST, GENTLEMAN, THE TYPE OF MAN ANY MOM WOULD BE PROUD OF, WITH THE ABILITY TO LOVE AND TRULY BE COMPASSIONATE TO MY FEMALE SENSITIVITIES. A MAN WHO IS BRAG WORTHY AND ONE I CAN ADMIRE!! Seeking grounded and sustained goodness in a man,I tend to make friends easy, it is finding true "keepers" with good souls that is the challenge. So, if you are a truly good person and an awsome man....you rock!! If you are seeking a "for now" type of connection, that is NOT me. Whether friends or lasting gf/bf husband/wife relationships, I believe in sustained long term relationships. Although, I will say that men say they want to be friends, but my experience is most are incapable of being friends as sex is typically the agenda. PAY ATTENTION MEN--WOMEN ARE BUTTERFLIES, NOT TO BE TRAPPED/CAUGHT, BUT APPRECIATED. SHE WILL STAY IF YOU TREAT HER RIGHT!!! I am a butterfly and have been told I am angel. Shine the sun on me and give me your beauty and show me the flowers in your heart and I will play and stay in your garden. Break my wings and I will be forced to fly on my broom. ;) Want to be ***? Keep on moving creepy picture collectors! I dont like a leering & inappropriate man in an in person meeting so why would I like on here?I get tons of messages with negative comments, personal assessments that are less than positive and then those men wonder why they get BLOCKED. Intelligent and attractive women who respect themselves and are used to QUALITY men can see these signs right up front. So....if you are stupid or just attempting to waste your time....send me a stupid message. For all the positive and intelligent men out there...we all know this portion of my profile does not apply to you. I am amazed at how many men wonder why they don't get the bee or butterfly? DUHHH...try using honey!!!Here is what is funny: Do we change much from when we were three? I am not sure we do? So...a man sees my profile and much like a boy who wants the toy ..he tries to get it. Maybe he sends a message or two and he does not THINK about what he is saying b/c he is "reacting" to his desires...so he says something stupid or rude or inappropriate....OR with little effort (lazy). Then..b/c he doesn't get what he wants....he utters some rude comments including but not limited to "no wonder why you are single"....as if to throw the toy down and stomp...having a baby trantum. Please boys.....I am seeking MEN. No babies need to apply!!!!! No males with anger problems or rage issues, violent tendancies or attitude b/c I am seriously not the one! LOLHE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.....If you are ALWAYS missing during the evening hours or "unavailable", I have no interest in a person who exhibits signs they are married or otherwise entangled. I am well aware of what it is like when a man is interested and takes the steps to ***get to know me ***share himself with me and ***grow/move along to developing steps to something real. Remaining "casual" and "random" does not encompass any of that substance. Anyone who can only talk to me only in the daytime, online and very short or rushed conversations at all other times (in addition to just being completely unavailable) is of no interest to me. Life is too short. I am not a cheater but men like this...by the time they pull their head out of their ass....will be gravely surprised and devistated when a woman "easily walks" or "occupies her time with a wonderful man". I believe in "investing" in a great person, in amazing and remarkable experiences and supporting the best type of man. So, if you do these dumb ass things it sends me and every other woman the message you are not interested, or not intelligent or simply spreading yourself (which is just straight nasty). Moreover, it sends the message that you are not worthy of being invested in as a "best of the best" type of man.Great news!!!! I don't spend my time trying to figure it out if you send me vibes that "you are just not that into me". And..honestly..get real...if you are attracted to me...don't you think someone else is and therefore occupying my time when you are off playing games. I have been graced with some great relationships....with men with some amazing qualities...thereby setting the bar high...so why would I tolerate rift raft. The reality is...no matter what comes out of man's mouth (useless words), they only have value when his conduct shows "HE IS INTO YOU"...and NOT "when it is convenient" for him...but consistant "action" is what defines a man...not empty words, compliments or flirting. A man who disappears and fails to communicate, share or bond apparently does not fear that my fine, beautiful, smart, sexy, savvy, intelligent ass is not being snatched up by another man. As such, I have no use for such a low valued man. .

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  • Lupe from Plano | Woman | 50 years old | Virgo
    Lupe

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-60

    ***Just a quick note; I can't see your profile if your showing interest in meeting me . I need to be an upgraded member, so just send me a hello so I can respond. Ty I have been happily divorced now for over 7 years now. It would be nice to meet someone who isn't a "needy" type or person. Someone who will hopefully take the time for us to become best friends & to explore new things together. Someone who will respect the fact that we do need time for ourselves as well, without being the jealous or controlling type.I am a caring & giving person that is thoughtful & always conscious of others feelings. Simplicity is the perfect word . I would like a man in my life to compliment me, not complicate my life.I value family & "Together Time". Its not all about me, its about "US".I like being spontaneous with my partner,my kids,friends,travel,etc.Planning is good too. Cooking,entertaining,having BBQ'S is great when you have good company.Staying home & doing relaxing stuff is nice too. I enjoy many different flavors of music & foods as well.Life is way too short to be alone.I don't really think that there is a an exact person out there that I am looking for, its with who you "click with".I would love to find that special guy to share many things that life has to offer.I am a mom of three kids(they have a Dad who participates in their lives, not to worry !) so it's really important that the man I meet knows the responsibilities of having kids.Thanks for reading...For our first date it would be something we both agree on, casual of course...

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