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Elba, 59

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About Me

I am kind and compassionate, good listener, happy, playful, positive, a direct communicator and reflective. I am also fun! I actually need to laugh everyday. I can converse on most everything, with good insight and intuition. I love to try new things. I enjoy the regular scene as well; coffee shops, movies, dining, cooking together, discussing issues and talking about day to day things. Divergent views are important but I don't need to debate too intensely. Golf, going for walks, I exercise regularly and still don't look like a goddess. I am average, shapely to a few extra pounds I will state this as for some, this is a big deal, no pun intended, ha ha. I enjoy pool, bowling, traveling, going up north, reading, concerts, and live theater. I am competitive in individual sports such as pool, darts and bowling and wii. I also enjoy some live sporting events. I have a dog so liking dogs is a must. I have two grown, married children and have great friendships with each adult child, their respective spouse and significant, and I love my grandchildren. I feel very fortunate that we are friends and enjoy spending time together, I really like my kids.I am creative in visual arts. I like many types of music. Music moves me. Love live theater, musicals, piano bars, dancing, comedy shops all those types of venues. I love to travel (I have been to Europe, Scandinavia, BC Canada, Mexico and different states) haven't traveled for a few years though. I love seeing other places but,I love coming home to my own bed after traveling. I am playful (said that), affectionate and caring. I am not clingy or jealous. I think life is full of funny! I enjoy going out, staying in, and am interested in trying new things. I have a fun active life, with calm moments mixed in, it's more interesting to share it with someone, flaws and all and I have plenty. I am striving to live and love healthfully. If you find me interesting, contact me. After all we all want to make a connection, that's why we are here. I know enough about friendships that starting one from scratch isn't like adding a few kisses and stir and presto you are a couple! I am patient are you? I don't like hijack kisses but intentional kisses, mutual ones, that actually mean you like the person. I get the attraction piece and believe me I want that too but it often seems that a first date brings a rushed kiss, pressure to " make the connection". How about finding some common interests, talk politics, (yikes) get to know a little about each other. Let the chemistry build a bit, it is totally worth it! Enjoy your day.A first date can vary a great deal. There is no substitute for good conversation. I'm in.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lana

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-52

    It's not true I had nothing on, I had the radio on..... Marilyn Monroewell it made me smile ;)I'm a hard working, easy going person. Pretty laid back but certainly not gullible or a pushover. Looking for someone to chill with whether it be a night out or a night in. No pic no reply.... It's not a blind date. ?? And guys, it's a dating site. Your kids are lovely but I don't want to date them. And your car is really cool but I don't want to drive it... Advisory notice: this whole beard trend.... Not my thing at all.... Sorry if that offends, it kinda offends my stomach too Might add more at a later datei reckon was at high school, might have been a guy called Colin..... ;)

  • Jamie

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    Woman. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-66

    OK seriously, don't ask for a phone number and then not use it. Geez I swear I'm being contacted by a bunch of 5th graders.Last person I met from here ended up being a catch and release after dating for two years. Time to go fishing again.There are 2 types of men.Those that have to have the latest model.And those that appreciate the fine lines of a classic. What's your preference? Lived in Texas for 27 years, and yes I still have the drawl.If you don't have a photo in your profile you will not be able to *** me.I like most music with a special fondness for blues, zydeco and jazz.Like to dance, outdoorsy type but not hard-core I prefer cruises to camping, fishing ( I can even bait my own hook), boating, motorcycles obviously, concerts, museums, zoos ,touring Ethel M's chocolate factory, shows, dining out, all the usual stuff with the exception of movies.Unless it is just something I have got to see I'd rather wait and see it at home in my jammies with fresh popcorn. I am a not fan of theaters sticky floors and those that treat it like they are the only ones there.A night out for me can mean jeans and leather or heels and legs that run on forever. Wickedly funny with a touch of sarcasm thrown in, so if you offend easily I am probable not the woman for you. Loyal to my friends to a fault. Close to my family even though we live in different states. The type of person I am looking for has a life of their own and wants to complement it with a relationship.Must be financially secure, I have no issues with going dutch but always forgetting your wallet won't fly. My preferences but nothing is ever written in stone.Taller than me, I love to wear heels. Motorcycle enthusiast go to the head of the line.OK this one is written in stone.In decent shape and takes pride in your appearance and hygiene. If you can't find your belt buckle I am not interested in looking for it either.Sense of humor, mine tends to be biting and off the wall. Must be single, or on the way to being single. I DO NOT DO DISCRETE RELATIONSHIPS. My profession should be the first clue I'm not ***friendly.Preference is you not have young children. Mine is grown with grown kids of his own.I am not a sit around and wait type person, so it's not unusual for me to send the first *** you're not interested fine, just be decent enough to drop me a thanks but no thanks not interested, It's what I do.For the totally clueless:I RIDE a motorcycle, I am not a "biker chick"Coffee or something along those lines. I prefer first meetings to be uncomplicated and casual. No fancy clothing or false fronts. People watching on Fremont or at Container Park on any given weekend. I love to people watch, they are just amazing creatures.

  • Frieda

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    Woman. 62 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-72

    Half the people on here put on lies,I'm not that one, I want go into a big fake spill,like most here,I'm a grown up I either say get real or get lost.Guess I'm just sick of fake- phoney-liars -theives-gold digging men are just like gold digging women-No different. Am I the only one out here that feels this way?Enough saidCoffee in a public place

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