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Elba, 59
United States, Kansas, Olathe

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About Me

I am kind and compassionate, good listener, happy, playful, positive, a direct communicator and reflective. I am also fun! I actually need to laugh everyday. I can converse on most everything, with good insight and intuition. I love to try new things. I enjoy the regular scene as well; coffee shops, movies, dining, cooking together, discussing issues and talking about day to day things. Divergent views are important but I don't need to debate too intensely. Golf, going for walks, I exercise regularly and still don't look like a goddess. I am average, shapely to a few extra pounds I will state this as for some, this is a big deal, no pun intended, ha ha. I enjoy pool, bowling, traveling, going up north, reading, concerts, and live theater. I am competitive in individual sports such as pool, darts and bowling and wii. I also enjoy some live sporting events. I have a dog so liking dogs is a must. I have two grown, married children and have great friendships with each adult child, their respective spouse and significant, and I love my grandchildren. I feel very fortunate that we are friends and enjoy spending time together, I really like my kids.I am creative in visual arts. I like many types of music. Music moves me. Love live theater, musicals, piano bars, dancing, comedy shops all those types of venues. I love to travel (I have been to Europe, Scandinavia, BC Canada, Mexico and different states) haven't traveled for a few years though. I love seeing other places but,I love coming home to my own bed after traveling. I am playful (said that), affectionate and caring. I am not clingy or jealous. I think life is full of funny! I enjoy going out, staying in, and am interested in trying new things. I have a fun active life, with calm moments mixed in, it's more interesting to share it with someone, flaws and all and I have plenty. I am striving to live and love healthfully. If you find me interesting, contact me. After all we all want to make a connection, that's why we are here. I know enough about friendships that starting one from scratch isn't like adding a few kisses and stir and presto you are a couple! I am patient are you? I don't like hijack kisses but intentional kisses, mutual ones, that actually mean you like the person. I get the attraction piece and believe me I want that too but it often seems that a first date brings a rushed kiss, pressure to " make the connection". How about finding some common interests, talk politics, (yikes) get to know a little about each other. Let the chemistry build a bit, it is totally worth it! Enjoy your day.A first date can vary a great deal. There is no substitute for good conversation. I'm in.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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