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Johanna, 59
United States, California, Santa Maria

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About Me

I moved to Riverside in ***, but I'm still a Kentucky country girl at heart. I enjoy new sites, foods and experiences (as long as it doesn't hurt). If you don't have a picture posted, I won't respond. I'm sorry, but for all I know, you could be a female.My favorite form of exercise is dancing. It's the only one that doesn't seem like work. Seeking a best friend for a long term relationship. Would like to spend time with someone that cares about their appearance, health, and with no unhealthy addictive behaviors. I want a person that is kind and considerate, without expecting anything in return. One that doesn't assume that I don't know much, just because I'm female. And he must be intellectual. I've learned that if I admire someone because of their knowledge, then learn what they know; I'll no longer have them on a pedestal. The man must always know more than I. I hope I don't seem too selective. I think of it as being aware of my preferences. My daughter (who signed me up to this site) thinks I'm too picky. I've told her, "if I had been more picky when I was younger, I would still be married". I haven't been married since ***. The older we get; the more selective we get. And the pickins are less favorable. I'm not looking to be someone's "Girl Toy". I appreciate honesty, even if I don't like what I'm hearing. I'm very honest, but I try to not to offend. I have a lot of friends that like me, so I guess I'm doing something right. Although in the romance department, I must be doing something wrong, because I still don't have a "Honey". So here I am, letting all of you know. I'm searching for a real down to earth, no nonsense, intelligent, yet humorous gentleman. (OK, you can be a little naughty.) My friends and family seem to worry that I might grow old alone. I'm not worried. I'm enjoying myself in the meantime. There are some days & nights that I would rather be with a significant other. A man that makes me feel confident that the next day is going to be better than today. One that can have me so charmed, that my reply to his every wish will be YES! YES! YES!. That's right, you'll have to be Prince Charming. For you older men, please stop flirting. I respect my elders, so therefore I cannot lust for you. Besides, l already have a father, and I don't think he would approve.Thank you for reading this to the end.Anywhere that will allow me to see you in your comfort zone. So that I can learn your likes and dislikes. And please, let's not make it seem like an employment interview.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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