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Elsa, 46

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About Me

Hi, I'm a divorced single mother of two great kids, looking for a friend first, then perhaps more. I have a great life, but want it to be even better, with someone special in it. But, I want to make friends first and foremost; that usually lays the groundwork for a lasting relationship, if one happens to come my way.... ;)I'm rather old-fashioned; in that regard, I'm not very comfortable asking someone out...not that I wouldn't ask, but I still enjoy a man asking me. When a man asks me out, and puts forth an effort to plan the evening, it says that he's interested enough to put some thought into getting to know me, and have a nice time somewhere with me as well. I don't mind playing it "off the cuff", but I like to at least have an idea of what we're doing, when and where we're meeting up, etc...I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect. I'm looking for "Mr. Perfect for ME"! I'm not even close to being perfect myself, I have many flaws. If you're looking for someone with the perfect body (I could stand to lose about 10 pounds), or the perfect face (I really hate my chubby cheeks!), then keep on looking, 'cause I ain't it. But, if you're looking for someone who you can trust, talk to, and count on, who would give you the shirt off her back if you needed it, and who loves kids, then here I am. You've found me. Update: OK, I don't want to be rude, but I'm getting *** a lot of guys who want "friends with benefits", or something like it...does anything in my profile make you think I want that?! Come on, use your brain, don't contact me if that's your intent! Please, don't wast my time, and I won't waste yours, you're not changing my mind on this topic!Update, Again! Sorry about turning down all chat requests to those of you who have sent them...my chat thing on here NEVER, EVER works right! Gonna have to stick with ***, sorry... ;)I think a great first date would be something simple, like having coffee or dinner somewhere quiet, so we could talk. If we felt comfortable enough together, afterward we could take a walk in the park, or see a movie. I enjoy the simple things in life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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