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Vanessa, 49

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About Me

I'm at a place in my life where I'm looking for companionship. How each of us defines that is as unique as we are as individuals. I know most people dislike us 'separated' folks, and I can appreciate and respect that, but don't judge too harshly. I know plenty of people who say they are 'single' and are very married to their spouses in every sense of that word. I'm legally separated, I have a great relationship with my estranged spouse, but I do not love him anymore and we both have been living separate lives for over 12 plus yrs.Pretty simple stuff. I got my life in order and I have my priorities straight. My kids need me, but I make sure I make me time---and for the right person, it's well worth it. I'm a good person who wants to find someone who wants a decent person to fill the gaps in our hectic lives. The only way to truly get to know a person is to ask questions and meet them. Be fearless...say 'hello'---you have nothing to lose and a lot to gain...a great friend and person in me. Life is meant to be lived and while I'm doing that I'm also hoping to find someone to add to my life...maybe that person is you.P.S. I know how to spell fun....and I know what fun means....but if your idea of FUN begins with S and ends with X skip on by. I'm fat not desperate.P.S.S. I am an eternal optimist and know that there is someone for everyone. At this point in my life I know exactly what I want--maybe that is YOU. Happy Fishing Folks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-51

    Note: I am looking for someone who LIVES in COLUMBUS. No exceptions. Also, I do not text. If you don't want or know how to communicate with me here, then it will simply not work b/c I DO NOT TEXT. Period.#1: **********!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM LOOKING FOR A MAN WITH BUILT UP MUSCLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!************ This is non-negotiable. And here is why... I am a body-builder who spends an inordinate amount of time in the gym. I don't eat like regular people do. And I do not drink. My lifestyle is very unique and difficult and something an everyday person just doesn't understand. But let's face it.... that is why I am one of a few women over 40 who looks damn hot in a bikini and made you stop to gawk at my photos. So... if you are someone who is not into working-out..... we just won't get along. This is a HUGE part of my life. If it is not a huge part of yours please just move on.It is AMAZING to me how men can put on their profiles "No fat chicks" or "not into BBW's" .... and they are overweight themselves... but I catch grief for wanting to find someone who is in great shape like me....????!!?! WTF??!?! That is SO RIDICULOUS!!!!!!!!!!#2: I work 2nd shift, full-time. I have skewed weekends and on top of that, I workout ***hours a week. I do not have time to exchange 2 words with you and "meet". Please GET REAL. And I feel I should say this right away so we won't waste each other's time. I do NOT do impromtu 1st time meetings... if you want to meet me you have to give me some time... at least 24 hours... to rearrange my schedule. Please do not message me in the afternoon to meet that night. It just won't happen... not with my schedule (I work 2nd shift with Sun/Mon for weekends) and not for meeting someone for the first time. It is different when you are seeing someone .... but 1st time meetings are horrible. I despise them. I have had multitudes of men presume after they text 27 words to me... we should meet... right then and there. I just won't do that. Now that I have that off my chest, here are some interesting facts about me:* I have 2 registered therapy dogs that I do volunteer work with* I have won 1st place for my tomato salsa 4 years running at the Reynoldsburg Tomato Festival* I love summer and hate winter* I used to teach junior high and high school science* I am an entomologist * I own a corn snake* I have a tarantula tattooSome kind of fun activity.... not dinner. I am not going to meet you for a job interview.... "Hello, I'm Jerri and am applying for the available position of being your girlfriend.....". PLEASE.... let's be creative with this!

  • Margery

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-48

    I am a fun-loving, laid-back person who likes to learn. I continually take opportunities to become knowledgeable in new areas. I am adventurous and like to try new things. I take pride in being goal oriented and knowing what I want. I enjoy movies of all kinds but my favorites are action and science fiction. I like spending time with friends and family, but especially my son. I prefer to watch movies, go online or read a good book before watching TV. I like road trips and golf. I have been to 45 of the 50 states & Canada. I enjoyed going to Seattle recently & like going on road trips. I love to travel & would love to someday visit Ireland, Hong Kong, China, & Germany. My favorite color is black. I like motorcycles. I love sports. I like to watch movies (80's ones like the Goonies are favorites), listen to music (anything from 80's to metal, to pop/rock and r&b), and read a good book (Sci-fi/fantasy is a plus). I value trust, communication, and INTEGRITY. I am looking for someone to be friends first who shares some common interests, is funny and doesn't mind spending an equal amount of time at home and going out (movies, concerts, Six Flags, just plain getting away, etc.). I think another good measure of a good friendship is one where the friends balance time with each other with time for themselves. Passion is a must. Being naughty with that special someone always makes for a good time. It is what is on the inside that matters most to me, so conversation is also important.Seriously... All dates are different. It depends on what the two involved decide they would like to do. Something where you can talk to get to know each other first, and then take it from there.

  • Eileen

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-47

    Here's what you need to know about me:1. I love to travel. Like I really travel. Do you a passport? If not...move on. If you do, continue reading.2. I love sports. You name the MN team, and I'm a fan.3. I love happy hours. Do you know of a good one? I'm willingto try any of them out. Bonus points if it's a dive bar.4. I love the outdoors...when it's not ***degrees or there's not 2 feet of snow on the ground. When there's not, I like bike riding, walking around the lakes, pretty much everything normal Minnesotans like to do.5. My name is Kristi.I'm a travel agent which means I get to not only travel the world, but make other happy by helping them do the same. On a typical Friday night I am out with friends... Going out to the movies, grilling out, dinner and drinks. Just about anything that is fun and exciting! The most private things I'm willing to admit on here is that I watch reality TV, don't judge, you know you do too ;) Send me a message if you are looking for more than a hook up and if you want to!

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