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Bessie, 45
United States, California, Elk Grove

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About Me

A busy mom with my 16 year old, the "man" in my life!! You will find me in the classroom teaching English or at the park on my bike or throwing the football or baseball with my little guy! Im a VERY involved mom so if you arent able to handle being second than Im probably not your type. I love everything from fishing to running, gym, Zumba!!I have been told by MANY that I am nuturing and caring and I love to have someone to take care of. I love to be the listener or the speaker. I could be found in a dress or my suits to my cut off levis with flip flops. Im the kinda girl who can change her own tire but would rather call my hunny to do it for me! I am very simple yet appreciate the finer things. I like a man that was taught at an early age to be respectful of women. I think a level of respect between a man and a woman really sets a beautiful foundation for the long haul. Im not a fighter and I dont mind saying "youre right"..I rather just let things go than have harsh words. Do not mistake my non agrumentative ways for weakness as I am woman that can strike back if need be. lol.. I love a gentle giant. I love someone that is big and intimidating on the outside as he expresses his feelings with me when we are alone. Please dont be afraid to hold my hand, tell me about how much you thought of me today or just simply put me in a firm grip to say good morning...(not too firm..lol) I love a man that loves his mom!!Anywhere we are both comfortable is fine with me..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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