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Bessie, 45

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About Me

A busy mom with my 16 year old, the "man" in my life!! You will find me in the classroom teaching English or at the park on my bike or throwing the football or baseball with my little guy! Im a VERY involved mom so if you arent able to handle being second than Im probably not your type. I love everything from fishing to running, gym, Zumba!!I have been told by MANY that I am nuturing and caring and I love to have someone to take care of. I love to be the listener or the speaker. I could be found in a dress or my suits to my cut off levis with flip flops. Im the kinda girl who can change her own tire but would rather call my hunny to do it for me! I am very simple yet appreciate the finer things. I like a man that was taught at an early age to be respectful of women. I think a level of respect between a man and a woman really sets a beautiful foundation for the long haul. Im not a fighter and I dont mind saying "youre right"..I rather just let things go than have harsh words. Do not mistake my non agrumentative ways for weakness as I am woman that can strike back if need be. lol.. I love a gentle giant. I love someone that is big and intimidating on the outside as he expresses his feelings with me when we are alone. Please dont be afraid to hold my hand, tell me about how much you thought of me today or just simply put me in a firm grip to say good morning...(not too firm..lol) I love a man that loves his mom!!Anywhere we are both comfortable is fine with me..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jackiemirazo

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-30

    Hi! My name is Jackiemirazo. I am never married other african woman without kids from Elk Grove, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Whitney

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-45

    I can list all the fun activities that I like to do or try… but that’s apparent & immaterial b/c I’m not merely looking for an activity partner--but something deeper & much more. I’ve got enough friends to do ‘activities’ with on any given day. Besides that, there is never a shortage of ways to keep myself entertained or occupied, as I'm not easily bored…. reading, learning something new, TED talks, inspirational articles & pursuing many other interests keep me buoyant & curious! Contemplating, meditating & reveling in silence is what I like ‘doing’ inwardly the most.. even while I’m doing a million things outwardly--best when I can find a moment & some space to reflect upon myself, people, places & the nature of life.. that how I continually update much of my understanding of the world. Random facts (if you really must know):* Can sing in 8 languages, some only a song or two.. but that counts right?! * Fluent in English, Cantonese & Mandarin; also possess a working knowledge of French & Spanish. Would love to add Italian to the mix without blending the 3 in the romance family! * Love salsa & improv latin jazz-- the unrehearsed, flowing language of dance is something that can't be described. Graced the dance floor on 4 different continents & attended salsa congresses around the world. Dancing has brought me some of the greatest joys in my life. Strange how some guys can’t handle that fact.. either b/c it’s something I’m better at than they are, or jealousy creeps in. Expression is what I live for.. the social aspect of dance just adds more fun! I enjoy doing it once in a while.. but it’s not a priority anymore as I have other interests. * Travelled to a different destination for the past few years & visited Asia lots. Barcelona, Prague, Vienna or Costa Rica is next! Learning to surf in Waikiki would be a blast. And Italy was a dream destination that I’d love to revisit.. the south is beckoning :)* Played classical piano when I was young, which sadly dwindled down to chopsticks from not touching the keys for too long. But still love the classics & other romantics.* Photography & culinary arts are also huge passions of mine which I’d love more time to explore.* I'm an ENFP on Myers-Briggs, so my natural personality matches are: INTJ or INFJ.. if you buy into that sort of thing! My match:He has to make me feel safe by demonstrating that he is worthy to be TRUSTED. Not just feed me BS which he thinks I want to hear. I cannot tolerate people with fake intentions. I want an equal partner who is able to LISTEN—not only through the veil of his wants. Some guys have agendas that are way too obvious & talk a bit too much or arrogantly about themselves! A sense of humility & kindness is a must.Someone who is conscientious, reliable & ambitious (not just simply say that he is lol).. whose serious & intellectual side equally weighs his fun, carefree, youthful vitality. BALANCE is what I truly desire to find in myself & anyone whom I choose to associate with. A man who is responsible, well-grounded, honest & self-aware. A true leader who inspires & reflects back the best 'self' that I would like to be! Someone with a familiar soul, drive & spirit.. whom I can be PROUD to venture out into the world with-- because we make each other happy, while carving our way as one—the Yang to my Yin & vice versa.Simply someone who truly wants what I want out of life :)A great date would be when we both realize that time flew by and we want to do it again! Being able to hold a conversation (not just a one-sided one) is a must. Having experience of judging 'characters', I usually know if I will click with someone upon meeting or just from chatting on the phone. I want to be with someone in an everlasting way, so I will look into your soul to see if we're the right fit! lol Move on if you have anything to hide or plan to pretend to be something you’re not. NO sociopaths please!!*Only genuine, humble, intelligent, considerate & self-aware men wanted.*

  • Essie

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    Woman. 63 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 53-73

    I am sensual, sweet, intelligent, caring, wise, introspective, and spiritually focused (not religious). I am happy and fulfilled. I sing in the mornings and at random times throughout the day for no apparent reason. I am constantly seeking to know, understand, and improve myself. I am doing my inner work and strive to be present and in step with the world around me. My politics are definitely progressive. If you lean to the right, we won’t get along. I enjoy being in nature - it keeps me connected - and I take seriously our responsibility to take care of Mother Earth and each other. Touch is very important to me and goes a long way in creating intimacy and romance. I love to cuddle and to share gentle touches and I also enjoy passion and play. The man I will be with is the man who is willing to be my side-by. This man will consciously be on his spiritual path - not religious, but spiritual. The relationship we will co-create is one where we support each other in both our individual and shared growth. We seek to attain the highest and best for ourselves and for each other with mutual respect and caring. While we walk on the same path, we each have our independence and we are together because we truly respect each other and enjoy each others company. Open and real communication is a must and a sense of humor is a bonus! I am seeking a man who is ready, willing and emotionally available to create this loving relationship. Are you ready to connect?I am sure we can figure that out when we get there. :-)

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