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Well, are y-o-u the one?Okay, so you want to know a bit more about me, eh? Let's see, here... what's the best way to do this? How about I make it a bit more interesting for y-o-u, the reader? Well, I'll try... wish me luck! Here goes!Since I'm an Aquarian (not a big deal to me, but others live by the Zodiac), I'll let Penelope tell you from "her" point of view. In Greek mythology, she's Odysseus' wife, so she should know LOTS about him. And, since most "traits" attributed to Aquarians are derived from Odysseus (I had to look that one up!), AND since most of these traits sorta match with what I'm about, I thought the "story" should go something like this: James (that's me), king of Ithaca and leader of the Trojan War, wandered around for ten years before reaching home. [I'm not really THAT lost, but mythical Odysseus actually did that!]While I was a-wanderin', Penelope longed for my fairly nice, finely chiseled features and my slender figure. [Well, Penelope actually longed for Odysseus... but I'll take credit for the rest if she wants it that way!] She also longed for my handsome but somewhat soft features. [Okay... ]Being a gal of few words, Penelope did have a few to say about me [and, of course, Odysseus!].[Now ladies, if you wanna know more about me, pay attention, here... ]She thought that I have a unique [absolutely!], quirky [mmm, hmmm... ], creative [ok... ], stubborn [well, not always!... and not impetuously so], challenging [that's what some tell me!], supportive [genuinely so], inquisitive [curious and analytically so], entertaining [sometimes... when in good company!], progressive [subtly so], stimulating [hmmm... I'll let you ponder this one!], nocturnal [well, I do get up awfully earlier than most!... and, can enjoy the night on those "special occasions" when sharing good company--if ya know what I mean!], and independent [but not selfishly so] character. [All that's pretty complex, but it's pretty accurate, too!]Then, she went on, saying that I'm unconventional [she knows me well!], sometimes detached [yep], intellectual [I try], objective [ALWAYS], individualistic [sometimes], inventive [of course!], tolerant [a must!], rebellious [absolutely!], sophisticated [of course!], future-oriented [can't go bad with that!], friendship-oriented [what can I say?], humanitarian [another must], and cause-oriented [depending on the cause!].Note to Penelope: A gal who's actually caring, unselfish and thoughtful will always get my attention regardless of "looks"... got that, Penelope? LOL!I hope you enjoyed my "short story"... one that tells much about me.Now, be daring, bold, and brave and tell me a bit about Y-O-U...Perhaps, then, we can begin writing a new story... together. ~~~~~ >  ? Sept ***Update!: After 15 *YEARS* I finally got my VERY long hair cut ... a "long" (hair) story I'll share if you ask! I have "naturally curly" hair and the gals at the stylist's cried out loud watching all my long ringlets go! No new photo ... yet ... I'll leave it to your imagination ... if you're interested, give me a holler!Let's find out...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Russell

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-62

    This is a long "narrative" but, I am told it is worth it.I grew up in Alaska where I found my passion for photography. I lived in the Aleutian Islands (Dutch Harbor) where I worked for a Norwegian fishing fleet, on the crab-boats of the Bering Sea (ever see DEADLIEST CATCH on Discovery Channel?) I also worked on exploration drilling rigs for British Petroleum in Alaska's Arctic Circle. I enjoy most any activity that includes the outdoors/water. Snowboarding, surfing, skiing, wakeboarding, scuba, wave runners & hiking . . . literally everything! But if raining I do enjoy relaxing in bed and listen to the thunder, etc.I have a number of different careers; all revolve around health & education. I work in hospitals managing Life-Support systems of critically ill cardio-pulmonary patients. I'm a Clinical Specialist for a Medical Device company and help educate the hospital staff on how to best use their new equipment.I also own a dot com company, am into fitness and helping inspire & educate others to reach their goals. I have volunteered on a Mission trip to Central America and do a bit of speaking at different events. Some work for Habitat for Humanity & Make-A-Wish. My VERY favorite hobby is . . . VACATIONING; exploring different islands = cruising; fitness adventure vacations to exotic destinations. Adventure is my addiction. But more addicted to LOVE. I was in love. . . only ONCE before; It took forever to find her and look forward to eventually finding that feeling again. Another hobby is finding Charming old houses and fixing them up. Just bought ***blocks from my last house, just off of a park, with a church & bell tower across the street . . . I LOVE IT!My Goal: Never being mediocre, typical, or "average". BUT. . .to be one-of-a-kind, unique, dynamic & Living life to the fullest. Because I try my very best; NOT to be average . . I am NOT seeking just an AVERAGE woman. I have High Standards and I expect the same from her; Meaning I am only seeking a above average, classy, loyal, attractive, self-confident, secure, intelligent, healthy & fit woman. I want to be "wowed"!!! And you do too. I'm sure you will agree life is too short not to be. You can see; I DO know what I am looking for . . . & I do not want to waste anyone's time. Wasted Time . . . is time lost forever.Integrity is HUGE with me. So; I ALWAYS say what I mean, and mean what I say....If I say I will call . . . I do & I appreciate the same in return. I'm confident you will agree; Actions speak louder than words. If you say or commit to something: follow-through is essential> INTEGRITY! I like to skydive, explore and treasure hunt. But, I also like to relax and have some down time; Sunday afternoons I like to (explore) open houses. When raining I like to spoon, snuggle & nap during thunder & snow storms. ALL kinds of music. Very little rap! Okay I'm rambling here . . . sorry.Eventually I hope to meet an HONEST, kind, genuine & sincere positive woman who keeps her word & can effectively communicate her feelings/needs. Not keep them bottled up, and then expect me to be able to read-her-mind. It is essential both of us dump any (all) 'baggage' from past relationships. I feel the MOST important key to a successful relationship is open communications.Now I have shared a LOT of info here, if you have made it THIS FAR in my profile; Thank-you for reading, you have made it farther than I would have. I now owe you a drink. IF. . . you think we have TRUE potential, please send me a message. One last thing. . .I posted photos, so I am asking for the same courtesy... Thanks for understanding....=)I have many ideas for dates. But I feel the first date should be something very simple, with minimal distractions to inspire communications. I vote for a nice dinner. Afterwards, depending on the season...Maybe something outdoors/water, possibly a walk on the beach? What are your thoughts of lunch on The Branson Landing (Cantina), a little shopping and then maybe dinner/wine at Candlestick Inn? I also enjoy concerts; any type of live music event. Anything is great as long as I am sharing my time with the right woman.

  • Steve

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 44-64

    What you see is what you get, except everyone tells me I look better in person. So many people lower their age, I have not, haven't died my hair; don't need to. Clearly I don't allways work and I plan to retire in ***years and move between NJ and FL, wherever the weather is better. Cold weather is for sking, otherwise I'll be in FLLife is too short to sweat the littke things. I look at each day as a gift and try and enjoy it and make the most of every day. I have to, I run my own business. I'm fun loving and adventurous. I love to explore new natural places by jet ski or hiking and if I have to by car (just kidding). I like to dance, like a live band, and drink only lightly. I exercise most everyday. I have an artsy side, I just wanted to play piano in my youth, Dad said your going to engineering school and I'm glad he said that. So I'm both artsy and technical, worldly, philosophical at times, but more simply just easy going and passionate about life, my business, and those close to me.I've been jogging on and off for 35 years so I stay in pretty good shape. I ask that anyone interested be in reasonable shape. To me happiness is in enjoying the world around us; our friends, family, children, pets, etc...that beautiful sunset with that wonderful person by your side.All the best!PSomeplace by the water to spend some time together, lunch, dinner, a drink or coffee, a walk togther, good conversation

  • Kinkyjay

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 29-49

    Hi! My name is Kinkyjay. I am divorced spiritual but not religious caucasian man without kids from Pembroke Pines, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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