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Oh wow, how can I let you in on my 3-D, colorful, exciting world on this little 2-D black and white virtual sheet of paper? I'll give it a try...I'm a young at heart kind of guy who really tries to live each day to its fullest and get the most experiences I am able to. I'm in good health for my 58 years of life. My main exercise is walking. I'm very open-minded in all areas of life and even if I don't agree with someone's beliefs I have respect for them and can be their friend. Diversity is what makes life interesting and keeps it going. I am a firm believer in evolution, although I do believe in a higher power and that there is purpose to this madness we call life. I am a Seeker in the religious since. I refer to myself as a Free Thinker when it comes to religion or politics. I do not believe one has to go to church to have a relationship with God. However I do go once in awhile to play hand bells or trombone. I love Sci-fi, Adventure, Horror, Fantasy...well you get the idea. I am a self-admitted Sci-fi Geek! I also love many other types of movies. I used to read a lot of fiction but I don't read much anymore. I like my stories on the video screen. I like going to live theater and musicals. Museums are cool! I am also an amateur musician and play euphonium or trombone (which ever is needed, I'm a team player) in a community band. It is a very big part of my life. I'm a band Geek too! I like going to places like Scarborough Faire. And I like pirates! I also volunteer usher for a local theater, live productions not movie. I love my free time. While I do enjoy my job it is, well, my job. I am not a workaholic. I work full time to earn the money I need for doing the things I like. I am not rich monetarily but am wealthy with life. I am financially stable and would hope the person I meet is also financially stable. I believe it is import to pay your debts. I'm also a neat person and don't like a messy atmosphere. I like to keep things tidy (like Joxer the Mighty, from Xena).I don't get to travel much as I really don't have the funds and with the band and theater stuff I do sometimes it's hard to schedule a trip. I love all animals but I’m mainly a dog person. I have a 14 year-old Yorkie. He goes to work with me and everywhere else that I can take him. He's my 4-legged kid. I have many friends including girl 'friends' but not a Girlfriend. I am not into casual sex. I am looking for that special someone to compliment my life and share the things I enjoy. I would like to meet someone to develop a deep friendship with, whom shares my core values, who would listen to all my crazy ideas about life and not think I'm crazy. I like to ask "What if?" And yes I do believe that intelligent life is out there in the galaxy somewhere. I like to live each day as it comes and don't worry too much about the future as things are always changing. One can only plan to a certain extent.Some see the world in black and white. Others see it in many shades of gray with a few different possibilities of what can be. I see a world full of color with infinite possibilities.I like all types of music. One of my favorite artists is Enya. I even go to the Opera once in awhile. I listen to Jazz, New Age, Classic Rock or Classical at work. I like a lot of the 80's Pop and Rock bands. David Bowie is awesome. I don't really do the dancing thing. It's kind of hard to put down in writing all the things I am and all the ideas I have. Just say I'm a positive, open minded, kind hearted, caring guy who has lots of good friends but really wants a special person to share the deep intimacies of life with. I like a lot of things and am willing to try different experiences.One thing you must know about me upfront is that I am an FTM Transman, that's a Transgender female to male. If you want more info just ask me and I'll fill you in. I have no qualms about who I am. If you are curious I'm pretty open about talking about it. I do not want to be anybody's fetish. Please do not judge me before you get to know me.What I'm looking for in a potential romantic relationship is someone to share my love of sci-fi, community band, and theater with. I don't want to limit my possibilities but please NO smoking. NO drugs. Please be in relatively good health, a few pounds overweight is ok. I like curves but I'm sorry I would have a hard time dealing with obesity (just being honest)! No major financial troubles. Grown kids ok. Must be respectful and accepting of the LGBT community (that's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender in case you are not familiar with the term). Must have an open, positive attitude. I greatly appreciate people that take responsibility for their actions and are honest. If you are Green (as in 'save the planet', not like a Martian, well ok if you an Orian -Star Trek reference- that will be just fine, LOL!) all the better. I'm not perfect in this area but I try the best I can. You MUST be single! I am single and I have no romantic or legal ties to anyone. I would never date a married/separated person or someone in a relationship. No games, please. The only games I play are video games (love my PS3). Oh and one more thing: Mac or PC? Mac all the way baby! Macs rule!Thanks for reading about me!I think meeting for coffee or a walk in a park, would be the best thing for the first meeting. If you go to a movie or play or event it's hard to really talk to the person with the crowds, noise, and other distractions. I believe it's important to really get to know someone before you jump into any kind of relationship with them.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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