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Brenda, 38
United States, California, Rialto

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About Me

Very diverse, lover of life, thinker, talker, often child-like (but not childish.) I value honesty and have little patience for any form of artificiality. (Well, except for Splenda ..... That doesn't count, right?). This means I am very forgiving of unintentional mistakes, but lose interest quickly when I smell baloney, or even bologna. (You hear that Oscar?)For the superficial fellas:I am a cutie ;-) but I am not going to fit your skinny-girl perception of beauty. I do not need to shop in plus size stores, but I have a lil' fluffy layer and I'm ok with that! I enjoy healthy eating and being active, but I am not driven by an obsession to be perfect. I take care of myself, but also allow the enjoyment of the tasty things in life. As a result, I know how to kick it into high gear when I want to shed a couple and can also just enjoy life, within reason, when I don't want to think about it too much. A few months on, a few months off....hey, that's a healthy balance! I am a smarty-pants science-geek, and need someone who can hold an intelligent conversation, but I recognize that intelligence comes in many forms. Conversely, I cannot be serious all the time. So please be smart, but bring on the silly!I teach high school...um...don't cringe...chemistry! Though it usually surprises people when I tell them. I love breaking stereotypes and showing others that a scientific mind and a creative soul can live in one body.A little bit of a girly-girl, but not materialistic...I'll go rough it with you, but I'm bringing my make up. I am passionate about people with a passion. What do you love, collect, know, participate in?Are you musical at all? A friend once said, "Hanging out with you, Shannon, is like a never ending game of name that tune!" There is always a song in my heart and head, so I would prefer someone who has at least attempted to pick up a musical *** can at least appreciate my musical soul.I also have a heart for our Creator, am a Christian and go to an incredible church on a fairly regular basis. I am not looking for someone who has it all together, but it is important that we share a similar belief system....at least at its most basic level. Bottom line: I am looking for my partner in crime. Someone to go on adventures with, to talk to, to connect with, to laugh at....um...with. I have my life reasonably under control and want you to have the same. Now let's see where we can take it together!Somewhere with the opportunity to talk, but that can include more than a bar or coffee shop. (Although those are fun too.... But decent beer is non-negotiable!)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Iris from Rialto | Woman | 52 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-62

    Thank you for reading my profile.I am a mom ,I have a 28yr daughter thats my heart , My family and friends are very inportant to me they have a part of my heart too , My daughter has blessed me with my first grandchild a gift in Sept ... I am honest loyal faithful out going Big heart And well a little good girl bad girl;) going on in me but all good , Well I love the outdoors anything to do with water sport, white water rafting and I love to ride motorcycles , that does not make me a biker chick .... I just love the freedom and how it makes me relax, I can go from leather to a little black formal dress and heels just as easy ,I also love hanging out with friends and family with a glass of wine and cooking with friends or just having a few beers is cool too . I love to go to shows and travel, movies . Also , started working out two months ago at gym at least 4 times week I love the healthy life style eating and working out . I am from New Jersey and do miss snow , and always will be a Jersey girl!!!!. I have been snow sking since I was 4 yrs old, I am a very postive person out going kind and love to laugh , I have a big heart and personality dont be scared lol ,I will do anything for family and friends. I love country music and rock and jazz van morrison adel , I am very Artistic I am a Hair Stylist and a Artistic Educator for Matrix. I love to do what I do, I am at a good place in my life, I would like to find a man to be with not , because I need a man , but to be a partner with , Where are all the men that treat a women the way a women should be treated . A man with self values and goals and class ,I will not settle for less !!! If you dont have a car move on or issues with meds drugs and drinking issues , I want to be with a stable man drugs or drinking issues keep going or on mood meds . Also if you have on foot in a marriage and one foot out keep going ......... I love hugs kisses and flowers also love to laugh till it hurts.You know ,life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away........ Do what makes you Happy... Be with who makes you Smile ... Laugh as much as you can.... Breathe love as long as you Live.... THANK YOU FOR READING MY PROFILE..... PLEASE NO PLAYERS OR PEOPLE WHO DONT KNOW THE DEFINITION TO HONESTY AND RESPECTING A WOMEN !!!!! I AM LOOKING FOR A MAN WITH CLASS AND HAVE RESPECT FOR HIMSELF ANS OTHERS , ALSO IF YOUR WINDOW SHOPPERS ON THIS SITE ... MOVE ON!!!!!! IF YOU HAVE A.D.D. WITH SITE MEANING CANT STOP BEING ON LINE MOVE ON U HAVE ISSUES ......OR STERO TYPE ME FOR RIDING A BIKE O WELL CLOSE MINDED ... I AM LOOKING FOR A PERSON WITH BIG HEART AND A BIG PERSONILITY , IAM JUST LOOKING FOR AMAZING!!!!! I WILL NOT SETTLE FOR LESS. IAM NOT HERE FOR ONE NIGHT ROLL IN BED ! SO I AM NOT THE MATCH FOR YOU IF THATS WHAT YOUR USING THIS SITE FOR LEAVE MINE .......NO CHEATERSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS OMG WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD ONES... FYI LOVE PINKKKKKKKKK the color :)I would like to have a drink and talk or maybe dinner or a walk with the sun going down on the beach ,that would be great or what ever we both feel like doing. A place to chill and just to see if there is a connection.

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  • Nina from Rialto | Woman | 55 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-65

    I want a lot out of life and I've done a lot of things that people would probably find unique. I’ve lived in Japan. I’ve served our Country. I’ve jumped out of airplanes, repelled from helicopter struts and was the first in my family to get a college degree.Although it's true it would be great to be in a "relationship" I'm not "looking" anymore - but it sure would be nice if we could find each other. Even a "good" friend would be a great. Actually, right now all I am really looking for - is someone to ride the chairlift with me. Even better - I really would like to find someone with an Aspen Snowmass season pass. I like to ride every weekend and once in the while I can go during the week. Snowboarding this year seems very cold. It sure would be warmer if someone was sitting next to me. If I were to be so lucky to find someone to ride the chairlift with me and they were wondering who I might be interested in going along for a longer ride with....?? Well that man...He would be my best friend, and we would just want to spend time with each other, it wouldn't matter how or where... those are just "details". The man that found me - would have a good heart, a caring heart. He would believe that a person, an individual, could live a happy, successful life by themselves but when the right two found each other, that together, they could be even better (especially if they could ride a chairlift together). I know this must sound silly, I just want us to be happy and have fun loving each other. I want to walk past him and I want him to reach out because he can't keep his hands off me; just as I can't keep my hands off him. :) Silly, I know... but it's the truth. Oh... By the way... If you are allergic to cats and don't know there are allergy medications that work... don't *** please. I'm not a crazy cat lady - if I could have a dog where I lived I would have a dog. If I had an ocean I would have a dolphin. :). Yes... I have a soft heart for animals and I volunteer for animal rescue.So now what do we do now that the snow is gone? :(. We can still skate or play hockey. ... not that I'm any good at it but I do have a stick :) or we can go rafting ... I love raft trips. Movies are great and I didn't go to any during the winter because I had a ski pass.:) snowboarding of course, (I don't discriminate against skiers - if you discriminate against snowboarders ... your loss) By the way, I know it says that I don't drink - in general I don't - but I am not against it. I just don't like to drink alone or if I have to drive. I don't trust very easily so I prefer not to drink so I can drive. Besides... if I drink - I tend to giggle. :). Since there isn't any more snow on the mountains for awhile - snowboarding is off the table....I'm "borrowing" this from another's profile that I liked but didn't have the nerve to write... Going to a movie and then dinner or a late night snack is a great idea because it gives us a shared experience to talk about to get the conversation going while we get over our initial first date jitters. :)

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  • Leta from Rialto | Woman | 27 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 17-37

    im an outgoing girl up for a laugh enjoy karaoke nights down the local with the girls or late nights up town ;) quite varied on music anything from old school 80's classics to the charts music.... i have two young daughters who i adore they are my life..wat i wud do on me first date is go 4 a drink to chat and get to no the person cinemas is not for me on first date as to quiet an cant chat...

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