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IngridOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-58
What I like most about myself is that I'm authentic, and that I'm balanced. I am smart without being a know-it-all, I'm sarcastic without being mean or b*tchy, I'm passionate without being slutty, I'm strong without being hard, and I'm affectionate and loving without being clingy.I am a positive person who forgives easily, doesn't get bent over small stuff, never needs to be right at the expense of someone else's dignity, and who likes to move from one happy thing to the next happy thing. I am strong willed, irreverent, opinionated, fiery, passionate, kind, sweet,capable, forgetful, happy, fun, courteous, thoughtful, loyal to the core, blunt, outspoken, nurturing, affectionate and loving. What I’m doing with my life?I'm smelling the roses... soaking up the joy of my grandsons' belly laughs, rediscovering the world through the eyes of a curious toddler and pre-schooler, I've gotten my priorities in order and I don't miss any of the things I used to think mattered.I have the wisdom to know what happiness really is. Once, I looked for a bow wrapped package, but I've learned that happiness is made up of fleeting moments that can be easily missed... a certain smile, the unexpected smell of honeysuckle on a path in the woods, grass under bare toes, that new baby smell on an infants neck... I'm spending every moment I can relishing those little moments. I think that expectation is the greatest enemy of happiness, and I take one day at a time, living in the present moment rather than in the past or the future.You need to know that I'm a larger woman... queen size, ruebenesque, thick, curvy,chubby, pick your own euphemism. I don't say this to be self deprecating or apologetic.. I"m just being honest. I put on quite a bit of weight with a back injury, and I just got fixed up and back into old healthy habits. the extra weight is half off and I'm going strong (no couch potato here) ...I feel sexy as hell, I accept myself as is, and I demand that anyone who wants to share time with me feels the same way. I am fortunate enough to have good proportions despite the weight, , but I am fifty pounds overweight.Want a hiking, yoga, or gym partner? that would be a big plus....my gym membership allows me to bring a guest ! :) I'm not dieting, I'm resuming the active lifestyle I had before my accident and eating clean, and I plan to resume healthy living permanently....so if you are into drugs, or think of lying on the couch or drinking beer as activities, you probably aren't for me.What am I looking for? Ideally , I eventually want to meet that person who is my partner in life for the rest of my years. I'm ready to settle down and have a life with someone I love, albeit taking our time to arrive there to make sure it's the real deal. I am not interested in men who are dating for the sake of dating.... cool for you, but I'm ready for something more substantial at this point in my life. I am also not interested in dating long distance.I do need a basic physical attraction, but within that, kindness, awareness, intelligence and the ability to love deeply are more important to me than the size of your waistband, how much hair you have, or what you drive. I am impressed by what you are, not what you own.I truly do not care where we go or what we do, as long as it's public enough that I feel secure (I can't trust you 100percent until I've looked into your eyes), it's quiet enough to have real conversation, and we can both be comfortable.A walk by the river at sycamore shoals, or coffee at barnes and noble would do quite nicely :)
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AshleeOffline
Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 19-39
Hi everyone well my name is Isela I am Mexican born and raised in Texas!!! I am a very outgoin person love the outdoors, love goin to the gym bbqn,fishing, hunting, mudding, catch a game, wings, fried pickles, and some beers!!. Well lets see im 28 grrrrr...I consider myself a very nice, sweet, respectful person. I moved to Chicago from Texas ,) Im very straight forward about how I look don't like b.s. I am a chubby girl and am not ashamed of what I look like..I believe that a persons integrity shouldnt be measured on the size of ur weist. I am a God fearing woman. Im all about havin fun and seeing what's out there.. I am on here lookn for a friend and open to what happens after that...Please Read guys: -ok I just have to make this comment my intentions are not to hurt anyone but someone's gotta do it... Guys turn offs for girls and why your not getting good feedback is because 1) yall be posting pictures of crazy hair,crazy beards,looking messy in pics like really!?!?! 2) no real info, not a clue of who you are nor what your interests may be.3) guys please stop posting pics of parents or all the family..that's something special not for everyone to look at. This space was made for one not a clan.4) Dont call ladies Baby,babe on the 2nd msg major TURNOFF nor ask sexual related questions!!I'd say somewhere fun like a good walk perhaps some lunch or dinner..a casual setting ,) somewhere not to loud..
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EnidOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-52
I am a happy, down to earth, fun, honest, genuinely kind and attractive woman. I love time with my dog, traveling (although haven't done as much as I very much want to :) need a travel companion, HINT!), spending time with my friends, reading, learning an ***, seeing my family and music. I'm revising this a bit now that I've been on here a few weeks. Yes, being attracted to someone is VERY important to me. If you're not attracted...lack the "spark"...then long term is tough. However, there is so much more to it. Perhaps that's why I'm still single...because I seek the ideal and should "lower my standards" my friends say. I can't! Who could? I was in a long term relationship. Then after it ended...I never quite met the man I wanted to be with. Granted, I didn't focus on it. I wasn't ready. I'm ready now...and seriously looking for someone long term...not casual. I mention that because I am receiving a lot of *** men looking to "hang out." I'm beyond those days. Although, I appreciate all the compliments and kinds words. Also, if your profile mentions something derogatory about your ex...or women in general (hate drama, etc etc) I won't reply. I am looking for a respectful, mature, classy, well mannered man. I'm not putting anyone down...I just have been down the road of knowing people who "don't want drama" ...and those are the people who create it and/or having revolving door relationships. I'm looking for a man who is secure in his own skin...someone who is masculine, manly, confident...yet tender. Someone fun,laid back, spontaneous, playful, has a mischievous side yet a good person,good looking but not****....understanding but not wimpy, extroverted but not obnoxious and loud. Responsible, reliable, stable...but not boring, pretentious or rude. Someone who says what they mean...and can speak their mind with tact. I like to be around people who speak their thoughts, opinions....openly, safely...exchange ideas without it becoming a contest, without fear of reaction and walking on egg shells. Someone who inspires me...challenges me and hopefully someone for whom I can do the same. Someone who likes to have fun...go places...whether it's dinner, a movie, to play pool, a weekend trip or to visit another country. I love to watch movies...all kinds of movies so you shouldn't mind staying in either :) Someone who knows who they are...and realizes still that you learn something new about yourself all the time as you grow. I don't want a man who's looking to say all the right things for all the wrong reasons.