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Lela, 33

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About Me

Let me just start by saying if you are just looking for a hookup please dont even bother messaging me. I'm looking for an HONEST guy..if there are any left....who will treat me right. I have been used and lied to too many times and I just want a guy who will restore my faith in the opposite sex :) I'm stubborn, a little OCD, a little crazy at times, spoiled but NOT a princess, low maintenance, but loyal, reliable, honest and have a big heart with lots of love to give. I'm tired of giving my heart to the wrong people. I'm looking for someone who will love me and my daughter as much as we will love him. Someone who's romantic, good sense of humor (I have a dirty sense of humor at times), someone genuine. I am a very independent girl and would some what expect the same in a boyfriend. I do have a child, she is 6 yrs old and she is my life. Her father is not in the picture so there is no baby daddy drama :-) I'm pretty much a home body stuck in my sheltered shell and looking for someone to pull me out of it. I love playing with my daughter and watching her learn and grow in to a beautiful smart little girl. We like to take lots of walk around town or just go for a drive and see new sites. I love country music and I'm a little bit of a OCD neat freak lol. I tend to be very shy and reserved at first. But once I get more comfortable with you I can be a lot of fun. I don't drink very often but don't mind the occasional beer or glass of wine (I'm a bit of a cheap drunk Lol)I'm looking for an independent guy. I don't mind someone who drinks....as long as its not to excess. You have to be great with kids because she is my main concern. I'm sooooo NOT into the bar and club scene and there is probably no chance that I will ever be. I've spent the last 6 years making my daughter my #1 priority and put myself wayyyyyyy back on the back burner. She's always going to be my #1 priority but its time for me to be truly happy to. I've been out of the dating scene for a while and I'm finally ready to start looking for my Mr. Right. Is that you?If that doesn't scare you off, and you'd like to know more, feel free to drop me a line. Sorry but if you don't have a pic I probably won't respond.coffee/pop/tea. Hang out and talk and get to know each other and see if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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  • Tameka

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    Woman. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-69

    Born and raised in NYC. I have a wide variety of interests such as traveling, dancing, shooting pool, movies, long drives, boating, the beach, mining for gemstones, or most anything outdoors in warm weather. I'm business oriented and like to play as hard as I work. Independent, honest to a fault, optimistic by nature. I'm innately assertive, no b/s, pretty straight forward. I'm not a gold digger, but not willing to struggle either. I'd like security and stability, especially at this time in my life. Before all, I want to fall in love with someone who will fall in love with me back. And believe it's possible. I'm spontaneous and love surprises. Not naturally domestic, never had kids, have always been career oriented. I'd rather enjoy being with you than cooking or cleaning. No slob, just not a fanatic either. Being in a kitchen is not exactly my comfort zone. I want a lot in a relationship, but I give a lot too. I'm very picky and yes, Looks DO Matter. Huge animal lover, I don't eat meat, but I do eat seafood. My experiences in life have made me who I am today which I'm grateful for and hope you can appreciate as well. I'm not into one night stands, I'm marriage minded. Will gladly settle for friendship if that's all there is. I'm not desperate or in a hurry. If I don't see or feel it, I won't fake it. Would respect the same. (if there's true chemistry, we should both know it). I just want the right guy for me. I don't jump easily, and with the right person, the journey is everything. I would love a guy who's easy to get along with and believes in God. About you... my age or younger, respectable, good looking and clean cut, a guy who takes good care of himself, honest and a gentleman, patient, yet open minded and easy to get along with. A guy who has a playful side, likes to do things and is somewhat adventurous. Should you win my heart, you'd never doubt just how special you are to me. I've had some ridiculous dates, so let me tell you what I DON'T want... a tightwad, a guy with no manners, someone judgmental or mean spirited, a serial cheater, alcoholic or liar. Life is too short to settle for someone that just won't work. If you are a cheapskate or do not have class or style or a little freakin common sense, PLEASE pass me by. If you haven't ran by now, I'm glad, though I do suspect this will cut down on my *** Thanks for reading my profile.I don't believe a first meet is the same as a first date. I would like to get past the first meet so I could look forward to a first date. With the right person, it doesn't really matter what we do or where we go... I'd probably just be happy to see you again.

  • Tara

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-51

    I am an outgoing person who likes to try and live life as much as I can and live each day as it comes. I like loads of different things from nights out to duvet nights in, from theme parks to walking along the beach! My taste in music is also varied anything that makes my foot tap and ables me to shake my booty has to be good! I like to have fun and I think I am an adventurous kind of person and will try anything once.Please note I'm not after a one night stand or a quick fumble I'm worth more than thatSomething spontaneous

  • Brigitte

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    Woman. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 15-35

    I graduated from college with my bachelors and now I'm just working and saving for grad school. I haven't had much time for dating or meeting new people. I'm looking to settle down, so I guess I need to meet some new people. If you have any questions please ask, I'm pretty much an open book.Please don't message me unless your serious. I'm tired of getting my hopes up and my heart broken.I haven't been on a first date in a while, but mini golf is a fun way to get to know someone. Little to no stress/uncomfortable tension and you get to relax by laughing at how horrible both you and your date are (even the self proclaimed mini golf experts!)

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