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Claire, 36
United States, California, Modesto

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About Me

Hello :) I am a career and family orientated woman and my schedule keeps me pretty busy. I work in the mental health field. I am recently out of a long-term relationship and would like to meet new people,engage in conversation, hang out, and travel whatever route life takes. I would like to meet someone with like interests, intelligent conversation, mature, no games. I don't judge a book by it's cover, I would not say that I have a 'type.' Intellect and personality is what I want to get to know. I am attracted to inner beauty, open mindedness, confidence, knowledge, compassion, and humor. Your looks, ethnicity, nor style is who YOU are :) brown, black, white, skinny, fat, tall, short......all beautiful people as long as that beauty radiates within. I am a BBW (for those that are unaware that means I got some extra meat on my bones! lol) and am secure in my appearance and sexuality. I am currently working towards a weight loss goal (I hate that word diet! lol) Some of my likes are movies (all types), music (most types), cuddling, photography, travel, lakes/beaches, animals, hardworking, open-minded, and genuine, caring, honest people :) Some of my dislikes - rudeness, liars, laziness, judgmental, mean, fake people :)Top 5 life values - Family, Love, God, Honesty, Acceptance So, yep, that's me in a brief nut-shell :)Oh...I am a HUGE Orange is the New Black addict too!!!!I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded person. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need an individual who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through,as I will for them, but strong enough to keep me grounded, as I will in return for them. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong partner. I need a partner who is family-oriented. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect my partner. I cannot be submissive to a partner who isn't taking care of their business. I have no problem being submissive...they just have to be worthy. And by the way, I am not looking for my partner...My partner will find me. My partner will recognize their-self in me. My partner may not be able to explain the connection, but they will always feel drawn to me. God made humans to help one another, and I cant help my partner if they can't help them-self...............NOW, if you took the time to read that, kudos! And thank you! :) This is my fairy-tale, hopelessly romantic wish to one day have :) .......... one day........For a first date possibilities are endless really. All depends on person, interests, chemistry, mood, day, time, weather...lol. Go somewhere and do something enjoyable, love life, talk, laugh, get to know one another, have coffee, ice cream, go to park, restaurant, bar, sunset beach walk, scenic drive, pool hall, putt-putt , air hockey.....limitless ideas really...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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