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Reuben, 54

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About Me

I have always said that with the amount of time that I spend on *** dating sites that I could write several books. To that end I have begun to write again, so you will have to find me. I will still check for ***, but I will not be actively searching the profiles. I will not ask you to read or edit my writing (at least not until the first draft is complete :)). Albert Einstein said the mysterious was the most beautiful thing that we could experience, but I think it might be true love. Love can be a mysterious thing so perhaps Einstein was on to something.This link is for a profile that I read that was interested in permaculture; *** I find this kind of thing fascinating and hope to find the time to build some of these types of projects.Ideally I am looking for passionate lover, loyal friend and confidante whom I can forge a strong bond with, a bond such that it will last a lifetime, so that one day, when we are perhaps into our hundreds, we will be able to look back at a rich and rewarding relationship. Ultimately it all begins with that first contact and starting out as friends. If there is one thing that I have learned about relationships, it is that they can start out of left field and sometimes when you least expect it, so I am open to possibilities and always willing to risk a conversation over coffee or a meal in a public place .An attitude that is playful, mischievous and a tad sarcastic is what I find most attractive. Second to that (I know this sounds kind of contradictory)is a nurturing and loving disposition. If you are genuine and down to earth it will get my attention more than anything else. It would be a bonus if you can play a fiddle or piano or guitar or can sing, but unfortunately it may complicate things because I will most likely fall in love the first time I hear you play I have always been very independent and a bit shy and when I was younger I always did things by myself very spur of the moment. These days I make a concerted effort to plan and get out and do things with friends and try to expand my social circle. You would most likely find me at the movie theatre, but watching a video at home with someone special would trump the theatre any day. Supper or lunch, either at home or out, is always a great way to relax and get to know someone. I am single, never been married or in any kind of long term living arrangement nor have I ever had a one night stand. I consider myself to be spiritual, but not a religious freak (although I once contemplated becoming a religious freak ) A friend of mine recently said that I have no ego. I think if it is true, it is because I have seen some hard times and find solace in the fact that things always work out in the end. A boss of mine once said that if I was any more laid back they would have to check to see if I was breathing.I have lost some friends and family both young and old these past few years and it has led me to make some changes towards achieving my dreams. You have been officially forewarned :).I liked these quotes on love from kids;'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who arestill friends even after they know each other so well.' Tommy - age 6 'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But ifyou mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.' Jessica - age 8 Good luck in your search. This site would not let me update my profile without a one word description of my personality. I chose rockstar which would be my alter ego, lol. Laid back would be the best description. In my case laid back is not synonymous with lazy :)A coffee seems the best place to start. A walk in the park is always good for conversation too. Perhaps go skating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Bryce

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-57

    I'm originally from California but moved to Austin, TX in ***. I love to travel whether its across town or over seas. I travel alot in the US and try to travel over seas at least once a year. I'm into adventure sports like motocross, rock climbing and surfing. I can also do a fantastic impression of a couch potato. I keep myself in shape and feel Im in great shape for my age. I try to eat well but I can polish off a stack of pancakes like I'm getting paid too. I'v been told that I have great style but I feel most comfortable in jeans and a Tshirt. Love animals. Love reading. I had a great childhood and grew up fairly normal. I try to call my parents at least once a week. I love good food and like to try new restaurants. My favorite type of music is rock (QOTSA) but I also like jazz (MILES) and country (CASH). I think I have a witty sense of humor. I'm 45 but people are suprised when I tell them. They often say I look and act like I'm in my thirties. I don't know if that is good or bad. I'm not really into the club seen but I do like to go out on occasion if I'm with cool people at the right place. I'm looking for a relationship with a woman that is fun, smart, sexy and beautiful both physically and mentally. I think woman are most attractive when they are happy and smiling. A good personallity and optimistic attitude is a big turn on. I'v been told my pictures make me look kind of serious and hard but I can assure you that I am really very gentle and personable. I'm happy and content with my life but I'm restless for more. If any of my profile resonates with you then I'd love to hear from you.I want to be able to get to know you so sharing a bottle of wine somewhere would be brilliant.

  • Denis

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    Man. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-69

    You'll find me to be an easy going, practical, open minded, down to earth kind of guy, with a somewhat offbeat sense of humor, but totally up for adventure with the right person! Activities that appeal to me; dining out, movies, theater, walking tracks, (with strategically placed benches for when my flat feet revolt) the symphony, other music from jazz to classic rock, reading, (mostly biographies, non-fiction, history/politics) home cooked meals, (as long as someone else does the cooking...my specialty is the clean up afterward) day trips to explore, and bike rides. A nap in the middle of the afternoon is highly underrated, although I'm not sure if it would qualify as an activity!

  • Glenn

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-57

    If you want to know more, please feel free to contact me.To have a chat and have a good laugh :) So send me a message and let's chatI love sci-fi, horror and fantasy whether in movies or book. However I'm not above watching a B-movie, I also like going to the pub occasionally to watch live bands.My children are my top priority, though most have fled the nest. My youngest son who is 20, is still at home, living off my cooking and cleaning skills. He has started telling me that I need to get back out there, so I thought I'd give it a go. O**WARNING** Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information or any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.meet up for a coffee and chat

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