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Bessie, 46
United States, California, Richmond

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Dec 2025 02:29:21

About Me

I often find myself humming for no apparent reason. Friends say I make my own muzak. But my musical ability does not stop there. I love to perform. I've done everything from singing ***, to characters at children's parties to being a fly girl dancer for a local band to a karaoke host. And I have opinions on most everything, but love to hear what others think--it can be enlightening. I am reentering the dating scene after self imposed time off, moving slowly, the objective is monogamy. Some might call me full figured, others might call me big and beautiful. Who I'm looking for? Closeted nerds please apply!!! /You are equal parts Peyton Manning, Stephen Colbert, David Letterman, and insert arty farty reference here, your online pic is a resemblance, not a remembrance, and you understand the importance of posting pictures (NO PICS, NO RESPONSE, this is non-negotiable). You lean to the left and love strong women with opinions. You have them too, but are open to listening to others point of view. You might play guitar and enjoy singing even if you can't carry a tune, but being able to sing is a plus!! Family is important to you and you enjoy spending time with children (not necessarily your own), but not in a creepy way, yikes! Religion is a state of mind for you. You worship in your own way--unstructured. It's not necessarily a place you go every day or every week. Good times are about the company you're keeping not so much about the activity or the place. But you do love a good time, and a good laugh-- laughter is essential, you don't take yourself too seriously and you don't sweat the small stuff. You have a very happy and fulfilling life already, and you are a pleasure for me to be with and vice versa. Your smile lights up a room (something that can never be faked). I am just the icing on your cake.Message me if you are well spoken, well read, can effortlessly compose a sentence and ask questions that can open and keep a conversation moving in a forward direction.What is up with all the selfies? Selfie only profile suggests to me little effort went into creating a thoughtful representation of the subject.I wouldn't call the initial meeting a first date, that is where you find out if you are interested. I like to keep that simple, a drink, a slice of pizza, juice bar etc. Something that can be short or extended if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Hispanic

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-59

    The right man will bring out the best in me and I will do the same for him. Kind, genuine, tactful, likes to laugh, fun to be with and not afraid to show affection - that's my kind of man. I would like to find a man who enjoys intelligent conversation but who is not intellectual. Emotional intelligence (at least some of the time) is a must.I am attracted to confident yet unassuming men. You can make me smile with a good sense of humour, by smelling good, having a passionate and positive nature, as well as with your honesty and integrity.I would like a man to walk alongside me and who would like to share activities together such as movies, theatre, dinner, outdoor activities, socialising with friends, drives, exploring bookshops and cosy cafes, cooking, and curling up for cuddles on the lounge. I'm up for new adventures, unless it involves heights and/or spiders, my two big phobias.I enjoy keeping fit and healthy...I try to run although not very good at it...I like walking and swimming in summer. I was cycling until I had an accident in January...still getting my confidence back. I've attempted a couple of enticer triathlons which have been a lot of fun.We all have histories but I prefer to look forward rather than back and I am definitely a cup half full kind of girl. I'm looking for a like-minded person who prefers real relationships rather than online ones.If you decide to contact me I would appreciate being able to see a picture of you and would like to know that you are ready to move into a new relationship rather than dwell on the past.Oh, no smokers, no tossers and no game players please. ;-)The first date should be very casual and provide an opportunity for each of us to be ourselves. A coffee/tea/milkshake/water in a coffee shop or on a nice patch of grass in the sun where we can relax and chat.

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    Woman. 63 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 53-73

    Grounded, stable, attractive inside and out - looking for same in a partner. I appreciate openness, warmth, and a caring nature. A great sense of humor is even better. Family and friends are my treasures. I am spiritual rather than religious, but respect each path. If you're looking for a one night stand please don't bother. I'm clear about what I want.We're all searching for that "chemistry". I can't put strict guidelines on what this would look like. It will just be something that will click.

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-44

    Hi! My name is Hannah. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Richmond, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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