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Bessie, 46
United States, California, Richmond

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I often find myself humming for no apparent reason. Friends say I make my own muzak. But my musical ability does not stop there. I love to perform. I've done everything from singing ***, to characters at children's parties to being a fly girl dancer for a local band to a karaoke host. And I have opinions on most everything, but love to hear what others think--it can be enlightening. I am reentering the dating scene after self imposed time off, moving slowly, the objective is monogamy. Some might call me full figured, others might call me big and beautiful. Who I'm looking for? Closeted nerds please apply!!! /You are equal parts Peyton Manning, Stephen Colbert, David Letterman, and insert arty farty reference here, your online pic is a resemblance, not a remembrance, and you understand the importance of posting pictures (NO PICS, NO RESPONSE, this is non-negotiable). You lean to the left and love strong women with opinions. You have them too, but are open to listening to others point of view. You might play guitar and enjoy singing even if you can't carry a tune, but being able to sing is a plus!! Family is important to you and you enjoy spending time with children (not necessarily your own), but not in a creepy way, yikes! Religion is a state of mind for you. You worship in your own way--unstructured. It's not necessarily a place you go every day or every week. Good times are about the company you're keeping not so much about the activity or the place. But you do love a good time, and a good laugh-- laughter is essential, you don't take yourself too seriously and you don't sweat the small stuff. You have a very happy and fulfilling life already, and you are a pleasure for me to be with and vice versa. Your smile lights up a room (something that can never be faked). I am just the icing on your cake.Message me if you are well spoken, well read, can effortlessly compose a sentence and ask questions that can open and keep a conversation moving in a forward direction.What is up with all the selfies? Selfie only profile suggests to me little effort went into creating a thoughtful representation of the subject.I wouldn't call the initial meeting a first date, that is where you find out if you are interested. I like to keep that simple, a drink, a slice of pizza, juice bar etc. Something that can be short or extended if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Hispanic

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Charlotte from Richmond | Woman | 48 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-58

    PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, READ MY PROFILE IN ITS ENTIRETY BEFORE SENDING ME A MESSAGE!!!! ; )(PS: The hand on my shoulder is that of my son and my father).WHILE I HUMBLY THANK ALL THOSE THAT ELECT TO SEND ME A MESSAGE, PLEASE UNDERSTAND AND GRACIOUSLY ACCEPT THAT I WILL NOT REPLY OR CHAT TO THOSE:- THAT DO NOT HAVE A PHOTO- THAT SEND A ONE SENTENCE MESSAGE- THAT DO NOT MEET WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR!!!!!Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to learn a little about me. *I am seeking a professional, NON-SMOKING man who is handsome - to me, TALL ***'11"- 6'4", physically fit/athletic/average body type with a great smile. A man who will enjoy my outgoing, fun-loving, playful personality. A man that can be strong yet sensitive, affectionate, compassionate, and supportive. One who is true to himself and not afraid to show his emotions/feelings and follow his heart. A man looking for something serious and sincere that will lead to a long term relationship over time.* Now about me...Oh I hate this part...how does one talk about themselves without coming across...hmmm? Well here goes...I'm divorced with a handsome, athletic and intelligent 17 year old son, who resides with me every OTHER week (Friday pm - Friday am). I am University educated with two Bachelor's degrees and a Master's degree in a challenging yet rewarding profession. I'm still debating whether or not, to go for a PhD - As they say, knowledge is power...lol. I reside in Whitby and commute into Scarborough for work. Others described me as exotic, beautiful/attractive, sexy, intelligent/educated, goal-oriented, independent, vivacious, rebellious, affectionate, sincere, loyal, and ambitious with a great sense of humour combined with a wicked hint of sarcasm ; ). My easy-going persona enables me to be a lady or one of the guys - I can go with the flow lol. I am a true Sagittarian woman -- LOL!! (Fire, Exciting, Passionate...Yada, yada, yada, lol. I love DANCING, fast cars, sports, movies, entertaining, beaches, and dining. I'd like to learn how to golf and play poker.If you feel you meet what I'm looking for and my profile intrigues you, then send me a message! My sparks don't burn - most of the time ; )Good "fishing" to all. Be happy and be safe!!Let the journey begin... ********PRIVACY NOTICE: Warning - any person and/or ***/or Agent and/or Agency of any governmental structure including but not limited to the United States Federal Government also using or monitoring/using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos, and/or the comments made about my photos or any other "picture" art posted on my profile.You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee , agent , student or any personnel under your direction or control.The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. UCC ***ALL RIGHTS RESERVED WITHOUT PREJUDICE ******WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.****** It is recommended that other members post a similar noticeAn agreed upon venue: Somewhere quaint where we can talk and get to know a little more about each another. If there is an emotional, intellectual and a definate physical attraction between the BOTH of us, then we can possibly take it...hmmmm...to the dance floor ; ).

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  • Laura from Richmond | Woman | 46 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-56

    quit smoking ***so far I'm good with it :)omg...being funny, witty & even cute is great but PLEASE DON'T BE CHEESY! LOLBig...HUGE...Turn OFF...just saying. :-/I was diagnosed with Cancer Feb. ***...since then I am doing well and have completed all my treatments and surgeries and I am now ready to start over.I still have days I get tired easily or some side effects still come about and I guess always will here and there. Please have the respect to be honest and if you cant deal with it PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME AT ALL!!!!If you cant Accept me at my Worst, you dont Deserve me at my Best!!!!!!!!Simply looking to meet a guy that is TALL, caring, kind, loving, HONEST...someone that knows what he wants and follows thru to get it. SOMEONE THAT SAYS WHAT HE MEANS AND MEANS WHAT HE SAYS!!!!! Tell me...don't think i know, cause i can't read your mind. It's the simple things that make me Happy and put a smile on my face...texts, calls, notes, etc just because you were thinking of me...keep me interested by letting me know you are interested..."hit & run texting" bores me. I like anything from camping to cruises!Please have a nice smile!!! it is important to me that you can smile and not have to hide your teeth :o) and if your proud of your rotten teeth...we are not a match...lol PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF POSTED...If you would like to know more ask...good luck with your search...keep it simple...a cup of coffee somewhere we can talk.---Please.

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  • Loraine from Richmond | Woman | 37 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-47

    I am one of those people you see rocking out in the car next to you. I ENJOY LIFE! I have a HUGE heart and share it with anyone in my life. I am truly the kind of person who will give the jacket off my back to help someone else. What goes around in life comes back. My glass is ALWAYS half full and I would like to find someone that lives the same way.I Love hanging around the house in the pool with a bbq, family, and friends. I enjoy a dive bar over a club, but do like a good trip to Vegas to dance the night away. I enjoy traveling and seeing new places. I also like sporting events, hockey, and football as well as MMA/UFC! I enjoy the outdoors and almost anything on water. I hope to travel the world doing what I love one day. It would be great to find someone to join me. I can laugh at myself, I think that is one of the keys to happiness in life; along with sounding yourself with great people.About the guy I am looking for. Someone who is honest (I'm sure you have read that a million times now), can laugh at himself (as well as me) knows what he wants in life and goes after it. Having some of the same things in common would be great. Travel, sporting events, movie, dinners out, and staying in with friends and family with some great food is a huge plus. Anything outdoors. I like trying new things. Lives a full life and likes who he is. If I missed anything please ask.I'm not into drugs and looking for the same.Some place that we can get to know each other. Dinner or drinks is easy or something fun and new. Everyone is different so play it by ear, but not a fan of movies for the first time we meet.

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