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Pamela, 38
United States, California, Richmond

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About Me

My best feature is actually something you can't see at all... My friends tell me that my Charisma is the first thing other people notice about me. At first, I’m Very shy, and definitely unconventional. Once I get to know someone, I can definitely hold up my end of the conversation. I'm energetic, spunky, and a bit competitive. My humor is Very dry & sarcastic, and I don’t find the usual class-clown stuff funny. I'm not afraid to work until All of the work is done, even long after sunset, and most times even when my part is done. I have a strong drive and definitely a stronger determination. My dream would be to have his & hers matching trucks parked side by side in the driveway of a working cattle ranch, with enough land to ride on and not see the same stone twice in one day. And, So far, I’ve got a GREAT start!As society turns more technological, I find comfort in the long lost ways of times past. I don’t find the need in most of the creature comforts today’s society seems so dependent upon, and would feel more comfortable in a rustic little hunting cabin, 60 miles from town, where modern convenience is solar energy, a hot shower, and a real-wood burning fireplace. I would rather snuggle up on the couch & tease over who gets to pick out the next old western dvd, than watch anything that cable or satellite has to offer. I was born, raised, and educated on the west-coast, and moved from Oregon-Washington to Kansas in ***. I’m not a huge fan of any type of sport, and you won’t see me with a golf club in my hand, unless I’m attempting to knock some sense into some well-deserving person…Currently for work, I drive a semi-truck. Regional and Yes, Over-The-Road. My passion is with hauling cattle; however, I have carved quite the niche in the Feed-ingredient world, and alternate between the two. My mate would have to have a thorough understanding of the demands that OTR trucking entails, and would be readily able to jump in and help out when the need arises. I have done a lot of different things in my short time on this earth, and there's a lot I have yet to accomplish. I have Dreams, Goals, and plans for a future. When I’m not out there chasing little white painted lines, I spend my time outdoors with my horses and cattle. I’m not a stranger to sleeping in the barn during calving season, and find that one of the greatest joys in life, is a newborn calf or foal. I still use horses for general ranch work, and only use my ATV for farming, when I need to check crops, or service irrigation equipment and can’t get my service-truck through the fields without hurting the crops. I enjoy fishing, pheasant hunting, boating, bon-fires with good friends, and rebuilding engines. After a long day’s work I like to snuggle up in front of a fireplace, with a soft blanket, a good book, and a glass of wine. I'm looking for a true partner for every aspect life has to offer. He would have similar drives and interests, would see me for what I am on the inside, not just the outside. He would be my everything; Someone to laugh with, someone to cry with, my riding partner, my trouble-finding partner, and my life partner. He would be soft enough to help me when I realize that I bit off more than I can chew, yet strong enough to work shoulder to shoulder with me.He would be equally a leader and a supporter, with a little same-team competition, a strong drive, and an extra helping of motivation and ambition. He would be a non-smoker, and only drink on occasion. He would walk a straight line with Honesty, Integrity, and Follow-Through. He would be trustworthy, self-reliant, resourceful, and mature. He would have solid convictions, be dependable, always put forth his best effort, and have pride in himself and his appearance. His communication skills and wit would equally match that of my own, and would know just what to say, and when it needs to be said. He would know how to treat me with respect, and would be there for me when I need him most, and expect me to be there for him as well.He would be past the point of starting a family, or raising young children. He would either have none, or would have ones that are close-to if not already grown. He would have his ducks in a row, and would be ready to start the next chapter of his life with someone he cares deeply about. Hand in hand, we would struggle through the hard times, and sail through the bliss. Together, we would buckle down and try harder when the going gets tough, rather than looking for the first escape route we come to. He would have the knowledge and experience to handle heavy ranch work and responsibilities, know how to saddle a horse, and how to change the oil in a Peterbilt; although it never hurts if he knows how to give a good massage... He would be more comfortable in the rural ranch setting, and would have no use for the big city. He would rather be on his horse, than a motorcycle, and he would agree that the smell of a fresh cow pattie, and diesel fuel, are better than any bottled cologne one can buy at the store.I am deeply rooted in Kansas, due to work and ranching, and would request that my mate be openly willing to, and in a position to relocate here. I might consider relocating elsewhere, if the opportunity would enhance or improve upon the goals I have already reached, and the ones, together, we have yet to accomplish. You never get a second chance, to make a first impression. I wouldn't say that I believe in Love at first sight, but I do know that people can feel Chemistry at first sight. I feel that everybody has a somebody, it’s just up to them to find that person. Que tenga un buen día!Hmmm What to put here? First dates for me never seem to work out as planned, so if fixing something broke, catching something trying to stampede you, or anything involving 4 wheel drive trucks and farm machinery doesn’t appeal to you, then you may find yourself eating at that fancy restaurant alone.The person who would catch my attention the most, would be the person who can handle laying on a blanket on the hood of a Peterbilt, in the stockyard at sunset, with the cattle bawling in the background, looking up at the sky as the stars start to appear, with a little Texas Red Dirt music, and a bouquet of wheat...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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