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Cathryn, 50
United States, California, Visalia

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About Me

I'm looking for anyone that I feel a connection with, whether it be as friends or more, only time will tell. I am NOT looking for a one time discreet rendezvous, a cheating lover on the side, or an ***, but more for friends to hang out with and do fun things with. I would like to explore our similar interests, and maybe expose each other to new interests. I am down to earth, laid back and enjoy a multitude of activities, indoors and out, and always open to trying new things. I prefer the old fashioned way of getting to know people....by spending time with them. I am not looking for love at first sight, but looking for a man who is willing to take the time to get to know ME as a person. I have strong beliefs, values and convictions regarding family, life and love. I'm hoping to find someone who shares these as well. I am open to other people's opinions and believe in some cases, 'opposites do attract'. I like to think I am a very independent woman, who is not afraid to speak her mind. I can give as good as I get, and not afraid of a good argument, and if ya piss me off, I'll let ya know--lol. I'm not so fragile that you need to censor what you say around me. I'm generally a happy person, who loves to laugh and be silly (yeah, sometimes ya just gotta laugh out loud even if the other person thinks you're nuts!). I believe in being 'feminine' but do not confuse that with being all "girly-girl" 'cuz I would rather throw on a baseball cap than worry about 'bad-hair-days', and I think 'less is more' when it comes to make-up. I am confident in my physical appearance and secure enough to accept my flaws. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder they say....I believe beauty is more than skin deep. I want to meet a man who can look beneath the exterior and be interested in getting to know the real me inside. I love family storys , but driving over the skyway bridge scares the hell out of me. And I love people watching, yet seem to have a hard time with eye-contact. (though I have been "caught" staring at my date once or twice *wink*)...Most importantly, I am a Mother of four sons; two out of the home and two still at home. My sons are 11 and 17 and I have 7, yes I said 7 grandkids! If you don't like young kids then I am probably not for you. So lets see who's out there, courageous/adventurous enough to give a great thing a chance...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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