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Lilian, 52
United States, California, Murrieta

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About Me

A 'Fav' is like a tap on your shoulder :)....question is ...do you turn around?? I'm young at heart but not wild, confident but not arrogant, up to date but not a fashion victim, reserved but not introverted, intelligent but not high brow, tactile but not clingy, passionate but not a hot head. Solvent and sane, most of the time ;)I'm not a mad cat woman that feeds pigeons and has a bed covered in cuddly toys (or cushions come to that!). I have a huge passion for travel, love to explore and discover new things!! I like open minded people with a bit of life in them, who value integrity and reliability. I'm drawn to confident and imaginative people...and I'm a sucker for twinkly eyes :) I'm simply looking for a boyfriend but not a simple boyfriend tho lol...don't they do those anymore? :pI really prefer your pics to be max 6 months old with a clear head and shoulders shot ..(it's unlikely I'll meet you if I don't see one) it just makes it less awkward for both of us in the long run...thanks...PLEASE lose the sunnies...even your Gran looks cool in them!!...Oh yes and not interested in separated men still living with the ex!! if I don't reply straight away to your message or at all even, please don't be offended, that's how it goes on here apparentlyWell we all know it'll be a drink or a coffee...but I always order tea in those places...just to confuse them.....and latte??....please...that's not proper coffee :p

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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