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Deborah, 49

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About Me

Thanks for the compliment of checking me out! My friends say I'm funny, outspoken, energetic, have a good heart, a great mom and have a lot to offer.. Im outgoing, playful, usually making friends laugh, a little crazy and fiesty, Im detailed and talk a lot, Some people love how real I am but some people dont. Which type are you? :) Im super sensitive ,soft hearted, intuitive, giving, guarded and honest.. I also like to know what the plan is and make it happen. If you arent turned off yet..keep going. It gets better. lol If you are looking for a "hook up", Im not the one. I want a companion, friend, lover who cares about me, not some deceitful selfish snake with no conscience. My heart is too soft so you liars and cheats dont even look my way. I want a REAL man. Strong and capable with a conscience and sense of right and wrong. I like dancing whenever possible and people watching. I do go to bars for a game of pool or live music, Cheap Thrills,Gold Sauce which is Funk/blues. Love it. Been enjoying country a lot lately.Cody Austin band at the Eagles next hilltop . I commonly strike up conversation with strangers. :) I need a man who won't be insecure about that but is also able to engage in conversation. Making new connections and laughing are good for the soul. I'm a city girl and a country girl. I love skiing, swimming, playing with my kids and dog. Like laying by the fire watching a movie or playing board games. Im a capable girl and try to do it all myself but so do appreciate some help sometimes.I have been a hairstylist for 20 years and its my passion but i choose not to be in a salon right now.(years of overuse have damaged my wrist) Making house calls and doing hair at home. Seeking new full-time employment as well.The hard part is knowing what to do next.Most important in any type of relationship is honesty, patience and caring about each others feelings that you should have in any friendship and being open minded to appreciate each other. Being spiritual helps. If you have racist issues dont bother me. My home is busy with family and friends of all colors. Definately most attracted to a man who is muscular, lean, health conscious. Really not attracted to skinny arms, fat belly, drunks or control freaks.Call me shallow. I dont care cuz If you have a big fat neck and look 9 months pregnant or drink every night and have no muscle tone cuz you dont care to keep your body healthy....I will not have any interest so dont waste your time.:) Please be real .Honesty and mutual interests are so very important. Having a partner to go skiing with, the beach, good food, a game of pool and a drink or 2, enjoy the great outdoors and wrap up with at the end of the day, etc. Those things together would be great. :) Im hoping I will be able to give love and be loved soon. Maybe I havent met the man who appreciates all that I am. Maybe I am too picky and havent appreciated who has been set in my path, or I just havent met him yet .Ive been hesitant and cautious. I do believe I am a free spirit and unique and I hope God will send a good match soon and we will know it *** the dreamer in me. We all want to be wanted. I hope for all of us to find that person who makes us feel loved and appreciated and whom we want to give that to in return. :)Best wishes. Treat others as you would want to be treated. Matthew 7:12Depends on the weather. Morning coffee. A walk in the sun or the rain. lol. Evening wine. Good food. Intriguing conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Magdalena

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-45

    Once again I am back on this fishy site and I still haven't found the one, I know I can't believe it either but it's true LOL. Just when you think you have it all figured out your wrong, oh well that's life and I always try to move forward. With that being said with all the disappoints thus far, I have learned that just because a guy has "That Look" that you like, doesn't mean he can connect with you on a deeper level. It is soooooo important to have a great personality and be able to open up and communicate because if you can't, the chances of it working long term are slim to none. Don't get me wrong, it also is important to have some physical attraction to the person, I have to like what I am looking at, but the communication has to be there to have that special connection with someone. You should be the first person I want to talk to, because I know you'll be there to listen..About Me:I am family oriented- (and would like one of my own someday)kind,caring,consideratehonesttrustworthyI like to go out to restaurants and clubs every so oftenBut just as content staying in and cuddling on the couchI like to shop(I am a girl remember lol!!)-I'll admit I have a bit of a purse fetish love them, Hey!!! I have my thing and I am sure you have your's LMAOLike Interior Design and decorating- love seeing the end resultsAbout You:Family oriented-(Want's one too)TrustworthyHonestcaring,considerate,kindA GENTLEMANCan communicate and hold there own in conversationsIs open to the possibility of a long term relationship-(day-by-day though)Well to finish up I am just a cute kind laid back type of girl that is hoping to find that special guy that I can connect with, and when I do the sky's the limit.So if my profile has peaked your interest then what are you waiting for....THIS BACHELORETTE WANTS YOU TO SWEEP ME OFF MY FEET!!! XOXOXOXOXOXO*** As of lately I have learned that it is best to get to know someone on a friendship level first because you have to be able to get along and communicate well, that is very important to me. I don't care how good looking you are if the communication isn't there it's very hard for anything else to develope from it. This does not mean physical attraction isn't important because it is too, basically you can't have one without the other..and for me I need both. If I find both of those in a guy, I would be more then open to having a relationship develop out of it.As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin....DON'T MESSAGE ME IF:1. You didn't actually read some part of my profile.. TRY IT!!! You might actually learn a few things, like I'm more than just a pretty face ;-)2. Texting back and forth doesn't mean it's a " real relationship"...I'm so glad to see u can spell..but I need to know u have the ability to speak too..I like actual " face time " as well..lol3. You go clubbing and drinking every SINGLE weekend..there comes a point in life when u should realize ur not 19 anymore..I DID!! So should you..it's called being an adult4. Your president of the "Babies Momma" club and your goal is too impregnate as many girls as possible...Sorry but that's a club I REALLY don't want a membership too..lol5. If your on here just looking for a place to stick your****.I'm sure if u scroll up or down to the next profile. . "Bambi-big-ones" or "Suzie Ta-Ta's will be more then happy to help you out..Sorry gentlemen, I keep it classy!!!!6. I'm a girl that has a sense of humour..I can take a joke and dish it out too..so if you can, we will get along great..If not your boring and need to get a life lmao;-)Well if we make it to the first date, we can figure out what we want to do together. My only thing is that we have to be able to chit chat back and forth, so hopefully by the end of night we'll both feel like we know each other a little better!!!!

  • Shari

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-45

    I like a lot of different things and am attracted to all types of people. Three words to describe me are: spitfire, goth, and sensitive! :) What are three words that describe you? First and foremost I am professional, and friendly! Seeking the same in a new found friend. PLEASE DO NOT:Look like you need to be on The Biggest Loser Episode ( a few extra is fine )have felonieshavr strip clubs listed as an interesthave children (I keep getting letters from those with kids! I will NOT write back)be married and or seperated (just do not want any baggage!!)be an addict (drugs,alcohol)have no transportation ( at this age there is no excuse)live more then 50 miles away (unless your willing to go back and forth )only text me to meet! (It makes no sense and I wont be able to hear your voice if you never call)and NO texting on your phone when we meet (it is rude)Or be a sports nut!!!! PLEASE BE:serious ( do not want just a computer friend! )carefreenice sensitiveartistic or creativefriendlyat least 5"7a college graduate.... (or college background)and please be employed....NOTE TO RUDE MEN: If you do not like my pictures, or want to say they scare you, save my time, and move along. I could care less if you are not interested in me, or my pictures, move along...LOLP.S. Yes I love boots!!!! I do have over 75 pairs of different variety, combat, platform, thigh high, crotch high and ballet. I do not feel it is neccessary to put the pictures up here.ALSO: If I do not write back, please understand I may not be interested. I am not trying to be mean. Just if you do not hear from me in a few days you can assume I was not interested. Thank you and good luck in your fishing.UPDATE: I recently obtained my MSW. I had wanted to leave the state and head west, but I have not been able to find anything in this economy at this point. :)I have a confession: I enjoy jogging a lot, and would like to get back into it if someone out here is a jogger and needs a partner in the area, I would love to work out.Go to garage sales, picnic in a cemetery, jog together, get a psychic reading, camping, dancing, out to eat, movies, travel, fishing, amusement parks, drive in movie, taking a 10 mile walk or something along those lines. If it does not work out, then at least you have a new friend. :)

  • Lidia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-63

    hi this is my new profile previous one abit dated ive changed quite alot..im no longer drinking alchohol,,well probly until my birthday im trying a new approach,,,i used the gym constantly leading to a back injury,,defeated the object i thought,,im now hoping to meet aguy around my age for exciteing times ahead,,my children are off my hands and quite independant i try not to be 100% over the top any more they can stand on thier own two feet or eight ha ha ..thats dosnt mean im against anyone with smaller children ,,,love animals have two dogs two cats,,,,which involves lots of walking which i enjoy,,,im very anti smoking so thats a no go,,,,,i work full time in mental health ***hours days then three off so have free time to enjoy,,,,,i prefer guys in casual dress than suited and booted,,,stuble great own teeth a must ,,,ha ha ,,,would love to be around a musicly minded guy with an alotment and a narrow boat not much to ask !!!!!!! ha ha dream of mine,,,have few tattoos so if your the kind of guy who s not into body art pass me bywalk talk,,see if theres an attraction,,,probly go for a coffee,,,and see,,,,it would be great to make each other laugh,,,see if theres a spark and take it from there,,,,,,,,

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