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Deborah, 49
United States, Louisiana, Shreveport

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About Me

Thanks for the compliment of checking me out! My friends say I'm funny, outspoken, energetic, have a good heart, a great mom and have a lot to offer.. Im outgoing, playful, usually making friends laugh, a little crazy and fiesty, Im detailed and talk a lot, Some people love how real I am but some people dont. Which type are you? :) Im super sensitive ,soft hearted, intuitive, giving, guarded and honest.. I also like to know what the plan is and make it happen. If you arent turned off yet..keep going. It gets better. lol If you are looking for a "hook up", Im not the one. I want a companion, friend, lover who cares about me, not some deceitful selfish snake with no conscience. My heart is too soft so you liars and cheats dont even look my way. I want a REAL man. Strong and capable with a conscience and sense of right and wrong. I like dancing whenever possible and people watching. I do go to bars for a game of pool or live music, Cheap Thrills,Gold Sauce which is Funk/blues. Love it. Been enjoying country a lot lately.Cody Austin band at the Eagles next hilltop . I commonly strike up conversation with strangers. :) I need a man who won't be insecure about that but is also able to engage in conversation. Making new connections and laughing are good for the soul. I'm a city girl and a country girl. I love skiing, swimming, playing with my kids and dog. Like laying by the fire watching a movie or playing board games. Im a capable girl and try to do it all myself but so do appreciate some help sometimes.I have been a hairstylist for 20 years and its my passion but i choose not to be in a salon right now.(years of overuse have damaged my wrist) Making house calls and doing hair at home. Seeking new full-time employment as well.The hard part is knowing what to do next.Most important in any type of relationship is honesty, patience and caring about each others feelings that you should have in any friendship and being open minded to appreciate each other. Being spiritual helps. If you have racist issues dont bother me. My home is busy with family and friends of all colors. Definately most attracted to a man who is muscular, lean, health conscious. Really not attracted to skinny arms, fat belly, drunks or control freaks.Call me shallow. I dont care cuz If you have a big fat neck and look 9 months pregnant or drink every night and have no muscle tone cuz you dont care to keep your body healthy....I will not have any interest so dont waste your time.:) Please be real .Honesty and mutual interests are so very important. Having a partner to go skiing with, the beach, good food, a game of pool and a drink or 2, enjoy the great outdoors and wrap up with at the end of the day, etc. Those things together would be great. :) Im hoping I will be able to give love and be loved soon. Maybe I havent met the man who appreciates all that I am. Maybe I am too picky and havent appreciated who has been set in my path, or I just havent met him yet .Ive been hesitant and cautious. I do believe I am a free spirit and unique and I hope God will send a good match soon and we will know it *** the dreamer in me. We all want to be wanted. I hope for all of us to find that person who makes us feel loved and appreciated and whom we want to give that to in return. :)Best wishes. Treat others as you would want to be treated. Matthew 7:12Depends on the weather. Morning coffee. A walk in the sun or the rain. lol. Evening wine. Good food. Intriguing conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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