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Latoya, 37
United States, New York, Yonkers

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Feb 2026 18:04:46

About Me

Who am I? I'm beautiful inside and out (or so I've been told ;) ). I'm driven and confident. With a degree and career in IT, it's almost a given that I'm a techie. At work I deal with databases, programming and tons of information. I'm a girl who loves her computers and technology devices but... I'm also an artist. I draw tattoo designs. People tell me their thoughts and I take those thoughts and meld them into their design. It's so incredibly satisfying to hear their exhilaration and excitement at what a good job I've done. I also have a passion for drawing and painting nature, particularly flowers, mountains, forests and wildlife. I am also an amateur photographer. I have become pretty decent at Photoshop and love editing pictures. I've heard that there are lots of great places to hike here too. Do you know of any gentle places to start? I'd love to give that a try and go exploring ;) I could get lots of good pictures and fun out of a good hike. :D I love the holidays and getting family and friends together. I like to get right into the holidays because of the memories that we are creating. I'm always the one taking videos or taking pictures. I like organizing the holiday crafts and getting super creative for the kids. I usually end up doing the kiddie crafts too :P :D. I make up an excuse that it's to get the kids involved but I secretly kind of love it. :P I love being a mom and being a kid at heart. I try my best to be a great, involved, loving mom. It's a lot of work, especially when there are 4 of them, but they are my life and I would not change a thing. I know 4 kids is a lot but that's part of who I amI, like any good woman, love shopping but you don't need to worry about that. I don't ever need you to come on shopping trips with me. I also love cuddling up on the couch and watching movies or TV shows. I like Dexter, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Sons of Anarchy, Game of Thrones, Big Love, Six Feet Under, Downtown Abbey and anything else that I can find on Netflix. I'm always open to new suggestions. I love spontaneous plans. I love to just go to another town for the night, just for fun. Anything of that nature that is a surprise is great. I love exploring. I love surprise gifts too but that's only because I do that. If something comes across my way that makes me think of you, I'll get it for you. It doesn't have to be your birthday or anything. Same for surprise passionate kisses out of nowhere. I'd like to live my life doing things, not just sitting around and letting it pass me by. I love camping. I love everything about it, trails, campfire cooking, northern lights, evening banter, laughter, crackling fire, fresh air. I try to be as direct as possible. No redirection, no hidden meanings, just blunt and to the point. If I want something, I say it, I don't hint. That saves a lot of problems and misunderstandings in the long run. I need the same in return. I don't want to waste time on small things either. Let's not fight over petty things, okay? Life is short enough! I'm a big fan of compromising. We can both be right and both be wrong, let's not fight over it and just come to a solution that we're both happy with. Honesty seems kind of cliche but I'm not a person who can lie. It feels so wrong. I don't want a liar, even about small things. I like to be affectionate and I want affection in return. I just want to feel desired, you know? I'm sure you do too. I just want someone that will spend time with me, desires me and I desire them back and is someone who I can trust and is honest. The rest is just icing. I am a very rare person (or so I've heard) in that I am not racist or prejudice. The only thing I ask of you is that you don't drink every night and you're not racist or prejudice either. If you're an angry drunk too, I'm not interested. Social drinking is no problem. I do believe in attraction and chemistry. There has to be that spark there to progress a relationship from friendship to lovers. Physically speaking I'm attracted to men who are average, athletic or slender. I prefer taller than me but by no means will that stop me from talking to you if you're shorter than me. Definitely not a deal breaker. I tend to be attracted to darker complexions and dark hair. I think it might be genetics as I'm half First Nations so I am definitely not against brown skin and black hair. I really like goatees. Don't know why, just do. No preference on tattoos or piercings. I appreciate a man who takes care of his appearance and dresses nicely. I'm definitely mo re drawn to a man who's wearing a dress shirt and smells good. I am almost always in a dress because I find them more comfortable and I feel prettier in them. I hope that's not too vain for you and I don't want to come across as high maintenance because I'm not. I am practical. I do own jeans and t-shirts and have no problem getting down and dirty. I'm not the type of girl to bring dresses and makeup on camping tripThat's pretty much it in a (big) nutshell.I'd really like to do something rather unorthodox like try out paintballing but somehow I guess that's a bit much. Let's just try coffee or lunch hahaha. Probably the best way to start, right? It will all depend on how well we get along anyway

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Reading
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