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Shelley, 43
United States, California, Thousand Oaks

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About Me

Firstly thanks for stopping by and reading my profile.. Well im a 43 yrs young single lady who is very honest and trustworthy and gives 100% in a relationship.I like to eat in or out,Dont mind clubbing & pubs,cinema,bowling prety much anything realy. Iam a good listener,and would give anything a go (within reason lol). I like the outdoors,walks,camping ect and those walks along the beach on a lovely day.I work for the ambulance service as frontline which I love.Im looking for a HONEST,funny,loving guy between ***yrs old who knows what he wants in life and who's not into playing games,or is so shallow that they dont see whats in front of them..its not about beauty!!so im hoping this site will be the one to help me find the guy im looking for. i want someone to make me laugh again and to smile and feel that warm feeling when he walks in the room.Im not going to waffle no more or we wont have anything to talk about..So send me a message if you want to know more n see where it goes, dont message me if your just looking for a casual leg over as im not interested!! Also don't quite get the thing where you click like/me on me so if I like you back I message you and you *** Whats that all about..rude comes to mindWhat i would do on a first date... meet up for a quiet drink somewhere so we can have a chat and get to know each other and see where it goes from there. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Dance
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