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Lorna, 44
United States, New York, Yonkers

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Hi, i'm a young 40 something (i.e. not a cardigan wearing, ground force watching, motherly type - nor a single wrinkle in sight!). I'm blessed to look 10 years younger than I am, which drives my friends nuts ha. I have a great circle of friends who I see regularly and a good job working for a large property company in London, selling multi million £ apartments. I love fashion and recently renovated my house, so pretty much got it all going on except, not yet met the man of my dreams!! I guess like most of us on here, i'm just not meeting guys through work or my social circle. So am looking to meet someone who is fun and near my age (no toy boys) As I said, I am a young 40 something and still enjoy fun nights out and travelling, although my "raving" days are over and I quite like waking up most days of the week without a hangover. So weekends away and dinner /drinks with friends is much more up my street than tottering around the Westend in heels at midnight, freezing, looking for a rave.I would appreciate meeting someone who also has a career of sorts - it doesn't have to be in the corporate industry but I would like someone with some drive and ambition. Also someone that can mix in various social circles comfortably.Personality is a huge factor, obviously, but I think being of a similar type means the chemistry will work better. I like to tease and laugh, so someone that doesn't take themselves too seriously would be good. I'm pretty confident, but by no means arrogant. I work in sales, so am comfortable with meeting new people. I'm not looking for a pretty boy, but obviously there will need to be some attraction (which I'm sure goes for you too). I am looking to meet someone, with a view to, if the chemistry is right and things work out, that would want a relationship, so if you're wanting some fun and not really looking for a relationship then I'd rather you skip over me, although that said, i'm not looking for commitment after the 2nd/3rd date - just see where it goes, but you'd need to be wanting the same thing ultimately.I'm English, but my dad was from the carribean (just in case you're wondering)I probably wouldn't want to organise something too romantic or special for the first meet, as it could go horribly wrong if you didn't click with the person, so would suggest perhaps just meeting for a drink or a coffee somewhere..... then if we were into each other, I would let my imagination run wild and make the next meeting something more special, or hopefully, he would - as I like a man who takes charge!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking
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