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Sonia, 41
United States, California, Visalia

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About Me

““To be or not to be,” has never quite been the question for me. I’m more fond of, “Let’s put it off and see what happens.” Yeah, I like that. It just struck me how that one statement pretty much sums up my theory on life. Okay, my theory on my life. No “to be”ing here. I just am. Let’s face it, I’m a 41 year old stubborn woman. I ain’t changing now! There was a point to this but I’ve somehow misplaced it. No, wait, me! My life. I will begin by letting you know nothing extremely exciting has ever happened to me. So why am I writing about it? Oh, dear one, excitement is over rated. Unique and weird is much more entertaining! I do admit though, it’s taken me all of my 41 years to appreciate my quirkiness and embrace my weirdness. If you are a little off, you might as well take comfort in that fact and find enjoyment in every odd look people give you. I tell my friends I prefer to bottle up my emotions. Save them for a rainy day. It’s much healthier that way. I refuse to watch depressing movies, read sad books or even sit and listen to someone telling me a story that doesn’t end with, “and they lived happily ever after.” Fine, I’m not that bad. I will sit and listen to someone’s depressing stories but I won’t cry with you. :) Yeah, maybe one tear. Don't push it. :) Oh! Take me fishing and I'm yours for life!Oh silly men, you know what we want. Simply go the extra mile and make us happy. :) Fine, the first date we could meet informally for coffee. Bleck. Hate those, but most of you feel it's necessary. It just seems so non-committal to me. I mean if I have talked to someone for a little while and have determined I like them enough to meet them then why not go for it. Do a nice dinner and moonlit walk. Nix the walk if it's the summer. This chick is not into mosquitos. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting
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