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Sonia, 41
United States, California, Visalia

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 05:51:07

About Me

““To be or not to be,” has never quite been the question for me. I’m more fond of, “Let’s put it off and see what happens.” Yeah, I like that. It just struck me how that one statement pretty much sums up my theory on life. Okay, my theory on my life. No “to be”ing here. I just am. Let’s face it, I’m a 41 year old stubborn woman. I ain’t changing now! There was a point to this but I’ve somehow misplaced it. No, wait, me! My life. I will begin by letting you know nothing extremely exciting has ever happened to me. So why am I writing about it? Oh, dear one, excitement is over rated. Unique and weird is much more entertaining! I do admit though, it’s taken me all of my 41 years to appreciate my quirkiness and embrace my weirdness. If you are a little off, you might as well take comfort in that fact and find enjoyment in every odd look people give you. I tell my friends I prefer to bottle up my emotions. Save them for a rainy day. It’s much healthier that way. I refuse to watch depressing movies, read sad books or even sit and listen to someone telling me a story that doesn’t end with, “and they lived happily ever after.” Fine, I’m not that bad. I will sit and listen to someone’s depressing stories but I won’t cry with you. :) Yeah, maybe one tear. Don't push it. :) Oh! Take me fishing and I'm yours for life!Oh silly men, you know what we want. Simply go the extra mile and make us happy. :) Fine, the first date we could meet informally for coffee. Bleck. Hate those, but most of you feel it's necessary. It just seems so non-committal to me. I mean if I have talked to someone for a little while and have determined I like them enough to meet them then why not go for it. Do a nice dinner and moonlit walk. Nix the walk if it's the summer. This chick is not into mosquitos. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting
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  • Gretchen from Visalia | Woman | 43 years old | Taurus
    Gretchen

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-53

    I am a 42 year old woman who likes to shoot pool, bowl, tennis, and reading. I love to meet new people. I would like to meet a guy who is caring and sincere and has a great personality. By the way that is my niece and I in the picture. I really wanna fall in love. I just wanna meet a good guy. Are there any left out there?On a first date we would meet for coffee and see how it goes from there.

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  • Jimmie from Visalia | Woman | 54 years old | Gemini
    Jimmie

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-64

    I am a very friendly and sweet lady to get to know. I love people, music,singing,and laughing. Walking on the beach in the morning when I am off from work. Being with my family and friends, partys, Love to be wined and dined.I am up for just about anything in good taste. I am the youngest of six children..We are all very close. I have two sons that I am very proud of .My 24 year old lives on his owen and works very hard. and my 30 year old is in the Navy,he's married and him and is wife live in Texas. I have changed my career,and I am now a florist, I love my job. Life is great and there isn't really anything else that I could ask for, except for someone to love,my best friend,friends first:).I am a good woman who care's very much for people, love to give. There's nothing like meeting a great man,so if were not a match that's o.k. We can alway be great friends.You can't have to many friends, there the best:).You can't go by a picture or what someone writes. It's not the same as meeting them in person, it's something that intrigue you about that person.I wish you all the best with your search.Sincerely,Barbara.P. S. I just learned something on my phone, that all you guys can do too. Put the app, hangout on your phone and you will be able to face time with anyone, how great this is. This way you can see right away if your going to like someone!!.I think we should meet some where nice for a cup of coffee.That would be fine.

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  • Beverley from Visalia | Woman | 45 years old | Sagittarius
    Beverley

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-55

    Hello,Raised in Alief but only recently moved back to Houston (Cy-fair) after 25 years of being away. Trying to find a man who is like minded in what they are searching for. • Prefers someone who is smart but down to earth• Can dress up good but prefers to change into a t-shirt and blue jeans as soon as you get home• Works hard so doesn’t need financial support • Doesn't mind people thinking they are a geek because they also know they are a rebel at heart.• Wants someone who is caring and wants to be in love one last timeA little about me…I am used to be the hardest working person that I know. I am working on reversing that but it served its purpose at the time. I have three Masters Degrees but the last two were just for fun. I am head strong and lead with my heart. I have a 13 year gap between my older children and the younger one. All the older ones have spread their wings, leaving the last little birdie at home. With that said, I feel I am finally ready to start enjoying life before I get too old.My co-workers said it should be a group lunch with them so they can decide if you are date-worthy. No pressure there, huh?

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