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Glenda, 31
United States, California, Thousand Oaks

Offline, last seen Tue, 03 Feb 2026 18:26:30

About Me

Lets see...I'm 31! I have a degree in Jewellery Design and Metalsmithing. I'm currently working mixed shifts doing healthcare related office work and also running my own jewellery business (during whatever hours I have left after shift work, jewellery and sleeping). Neither are jobs that really enable me to be meeting many people,and neither was my job prior to this. Bad luck!!Likes and dislikes... I'd like to think that I'm a fairly open-minded person. I'll try most things once. I'll listen to almost any type of music, I like a lot of different genres of film (with the exception of horror movies like The Ring or The grudge etc...I just can't seem to watch that stuff) What else... I actually really like watching sports. Whether or not I'm good at playing them, however, is another story....I can be really shy. It can be annoying, but it is what it is. From what I'm told it tends to come across as disinterest or something like that, but I swear it's just probably me sitting there thinking "Holy sh*t I'm so nervous!" That being said, once I get to know someone I can be incredibly sarcastic and sometimes my verbal filter becomes somewhat non-existent.What else.....I'm tall. I know it already says that in the above info, but I think some people kind of breeze over that info. I'm almost 6 feet tall and to be completely honest I'm not so into being the taller one in a relationship. I suppose it always depends on the person doesn't it? I'm also a plus sized lady. I love and respect myself the way I am, whether I'm wearing size 24 or size ***"10" isn't going to happen -lol-) I tend to expect the same positivity and respect from anyone in my life, as that's how I choose to treat people as well..........Should I get off my soapbox now? :)That's all I've got for now, I won't write any more of a novel in this little space than I already have. If anyone wants to know more feel free to ask.hmm...coffee, tea....anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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