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Lilly, 52
United States, North Carolina, Cary

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About Me

I'm not a member on here so if you want to "meet me" or "show interest" sent me a message *** can't see who you are" Thanks!Hello, I am in the field of animals so if you DO NOT like animals (DOGS) you do not need to read any more or be in my life, as they are a very big part of me and always will be. I do Dachshund rescue & fostering.I like to be outdoors in the Summer time whether it's in my yard gardening, sitting at the lake, fishing, camping, a nice drive out of town, a little walk and have a picnic. Going to a great movie is always nice, so many great ones out anymore, I love being out under our great universe looking up to stargaze and try learning about the unknown out there beyond our solar system. I like going to listen to a good band or out to just people watch. I love going to flea markets, home shows, garage sales, farmer markets.I like NCIS, Criminal Minds, White Collar, Blue Bloods, The Closer, Law & Orders, The Voice, Undercover Boss, Person of Interest, Survivor, Amazing Race... I like almost all types of music with the exception of Rap & heavy metal type. I'm looking for a friend to meet and have fun with and getting to know. I appreciate a man who likes me for my mind not my body...but who plays with my body when the time is right, and never my mind. I am a very independent person that like to try doing thing my way first, but not too proud to ask for help if needed. I do like a good challenge from time to time and having a guy in my life to challenge me sometimes would be fun. I think we all should be challenged from time to time. I don't need a man in my life to complete me, I want one to share my life with, that someone special we can complete each other. I am a very gentle and soft hearted person and need someone likewise. I do consider myself a LADY and I will require to be treated like a LADY, so if you cannot respect that PLEASE delete me or move on, don't waste my time. I AM NOT ON HERE LOOKING FOR SEX, cam’ing, phone sex or internet sex! I'm too old to be playing the games! A relationship that starts out with sex right off before becoming best friends first and nurture and water it, it will never be anything more that a sexual relationship and that's not what I want. I treat people the way I want to be treated and please do not get me wrong I have my days & moments just like to rest of the world when we have had that stressed out day. ABOUT YOU:This is easy.... Why in the world would anyone put chains on someone, I've paid my dues to make it in this world... Everybody wants someone to be what they want them to be, I'm not happy when I've try to fake it to please the person. I'm someone who knows the REAL meaning of honesty and trust. I'm looking for someone who knows how to treat a LADY like a real LADY and not just out for sex or a toy. I'm not on here looking for anything in the sex department unless you're the right guy in my life. So don't be surprised if you *** I'm a little cold at first. In addition, guys PLEASE learn what Soap, Deodorant and Cologne is and for pete, sakes BRUSH your damn teeth.Pretty casual at first maybe meeting in a mutual place for coffee, tea, pop or dinner. We can talk and get to know more about each other and see if there is any chemistry or not. Whether there is or not we have made a friend if nothing more, who doesn't need a friend to talk with or go hang out for dinner or movie when nothing more to do. If thing go into a second time, a dinner, going to listening to a good band or movie is a good thing unless it's beautiful out then maybe a picnic at one of many beautiful lakes we have here. We could just as well do the outdoor activity(fishing, small little walk or drive Etc.).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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